Who's fantasy is it anyway?

Many moons ago I was compelled to read some of Sigmund Freud works. Now that I’m older and maybe a bit wiser, I find myself analyzing situations on ‘Expectations’. These thought take me down a road that makes me wonder what is truly happening between the sexes and how would Sigmund Freud analyze it. We Men would love to think that we have some control with statements like “Act like Lady, and think like a man” and women are thinking it’s their turn to grab control and have their fantasies fulfilled.

Men so do not want to deal with the attitudes that make us feel like we are inadequate in a modern World where women are leading in so many different category.  In some countries (like Colombia) a good man can still have choices of many willing women and can take his time and pick one of many whom will say to him: ”I will Love to call you ‘Papi’.”

Therefore I have to state for the record that Sofia Vergara is my fantasy woman of late. A mother of a 19 year old son who is hotter that ‘hot’ who's thoughts are  like many Colombian woman, that coming to America she will find the  --Al Bundy type--- , and he will become  her  dream husband.

Please note that the back of this dude’s head looks like mine (with not much hair at the crown) .  But the ladies in the room don’t seem to care about his looks, they are looking at him like he is special Knight in Armor  and is saying all the right  things that is connecting with them ,(maybe the translator next to him is making everything sound like a script written for Denzel Washington)

Man's delima with his fantasies. (they seldom happen)

A night out at a local club can have a man wondering what it would be like if he could just have his pick of performers on stage. Just this once!

“I which that I could live the life I keep dream about!”after 4 beers and a boiler maker he is feeling  no pain. So rejection will not faze him

A dream come through.

The phone call you can’t believe

the call you’ve been dreaming about finally comes and as a fella that wished that his mate would surprise you once in a while with a fantasy night, you are surprised by the tone in her voice and the direct question 

”How about a threesome tonight?”

So you go shopping for trouble? A threesome might be on her mind (her version may not exactly be  most guy’s fantasy!

So, whose fantasy is this anyway? 

What is she thinking???

Ever wonder if she is really into you? Or are you just servicing her fantasy.

Here is the problem women watch porn now also and expect men to last for the duration of the night. Men are pressured to last longer by focusing on something else might be the order of the day to go the distance.

I can go all night, I hope you can keep up!

You are so 'hot' I'm sorry I forgot  your name…….. Ooops!

"Why do you seem so not interested?"

“I'm thinking about  a new BMW..”

Once again I’m so disappointed, after all that hype!

In the End I believe woman still prefer having MEN surprise them in a way men are seldom  willing to.

"Honey get ready for a surprise to night. I’m cooking up your favorite. Dinner will be served upon your command."

I believe Sigmund Freud would  have a lot to say about  the word command being a ‘Freudian slips’