It's complicated, but does it really have to be?

After reviewing this picture, I asked myself, are things really this complicated in relationships nowadays, and do they really have to be? This signifies that there is a male shortage... Therefore a few females are being shortchanged. The person who is always satisfied is the Hoe who is in this for the money. the picture shows that nowadays Wives are sharing their husband with 3 other women. maybe 2 while one sits silently on the sidelined and hopes that it all comes to a climax and she becomes the default  perfect partner. The Ex who never let go completely. She has a history with him therefore  is stuck in a rut. Which one of these females fits this describtion.: She is Working it like she is the star of her own catwalk! She is bold. She is fierce. She Keeps stepping with her head held high -- knowing that she got this! Because, in fact, she does! 
 


How many wives/ live-in lovers echo, the caption statement, on  the picture below (Shirley Caesar quote.)  Here she knows that as a couple they have a history... which has endured many mow-hills that seemed like mountains at the time.. But knows that the complications have started creeping in from every angle. The " freak for pay " is the only one who knows where she stands. The Ex (whatever) stays in limbo, finding excuses to call and text or talk about the kids or whatever. The college girl-friend that never allow for a real relationship, with him during their college years, because she wanted a career  right after college and thought a relationship would prevent her from getting what she wanted. Now years later she  thinks that she was wrong for not allowing the relationship to happen. Some of these woman now are thinking they need  to move-on  by hitting the 'start button,' but can't figure out how to  shift to 'forward,' they stay in 'neutral' and slips into 'reverse,' in their heads over and over.
If you are any of these females...identify who you are....... and Finish This Sentence:
 Every relationship should teach me a valuable lesson about myself. The most valuable lessons I've learned from my past relationships is......

OK, let me help you out. Stop wasting valuable time on a person that does not challenge or fulfill you! I'm not suggesting that you quit your relationship today, but at least start working towards making your passion (your needs) your priority.
Procrastination is the number one reason why most people are dreaming their dream instead of living their life's dream!
The problem with a relationship is that there is no “quick fix.” You must exercise patience and work at repairing the damage. Don’t expect the relationship to be the same because it never will be. Nor should it  be. Your relationship should be better, stronger, and different.
But if you feel in your heart that you cannot truly forgive them,  release them, stop punishing yourself and your partner and move on! Otherwise, you will always see him/her as “The person who hurt you, lied to you, and humiliated you.” Be honest with yourself  and make a decision to work it out or leave.