10 Secrets Men Keep From Women!

Sometimes men withhold information and some times we straight up lie. But most of the time these secrets we have are totally justifiable. at least in our minds.. Let me explain why;

We still check out other women. But I suspect you know that anyway. It’s totally natural to notice healthy and attractive members of the opposite sex, you must have done it yourself occasionally?  Or  you would not have noticed me. The reason we deny this is purely to spare your feelings. We don’t want to cause drama by making you jealous or make you feel insecure. If we weren't attracted to you more than anyone else, we wouldn't be with you! take chill pill and call me when you calm down!

When we first met, we stalked your Facebook profile first thing the next day. And I mean stalked you posts you comments to others post etc..... We checked out all your photos  and all your statuses. We wouldn't want to freak you out by sharing that information too early! Simply because might think it is "creepy", however because of social media we can be voyeurs and get away with it. No harm not foul. We suspect you do the same things.

We watch adult films. Not as often as we used to, but we still do it. We keep this information private, once again, to stop you feeling insecure. we are adult here... habits are hard to break, cold turkey. don't make us feel like it's an either or situation. If you do..... at least one of us will be disappointed.

We love it when you have girl’s night out. We might tell you we wish you were staying in with us, but truthfully, we've already started setting up the games console or downloading the latest action movie. checking out the NBA play-offs.. and not having to deal with  " can I change the channel"  questions.  It’s nice to have a bit of space every now and then. Absence makes the heart grown fonder etc.

Hair in the drain and hair extensions creep us out. We won’t mention it, but we certainly won’t touch it. Walking into the bathroom to find clip in human hair hanging from the towel rail is quite disturbing. It looks great when it’s in your hair but when it’s out, we’d rather not have to see it. We start wondering what else is fake?????


We’re glad when you bring up serious topics. I’m talking moving in, kids, marriage or pets. If you bring it up then we don’t have to. The reason we don’t want to is that we just don’t know how to get into these deep conversations. We can still feel a bit uncomfortable at first but it makes us more grateful you’re willing to put these topics out there.

Bight lipstick is not cool. You look great, you don’t need neon pink or bright orange lipstick. One peck from you in the morning leaves us paranoid all day that we’re wearing it....

We like compliments. A real man isn't afraid to tell a woman she looks great but every now and then we could do with a compliment too, even an exaggerated one such as “You look incredible handsome this morning” will make us smile and will show us you care. Or we start feeling like your love is blinding you to facts that.. the hairline is trying to connect the crown that is already bald.

We were nervous the first time we were thinking about  having  sex with you... close up. Maybe you didn't notice, I'm sure it you think about you will say "Ooooh Yeah"   because you were nervous yourself. We play it cool but what were thinking is, “Don’t climax too early,( in my pants) don’t wait for too long to make the right move, don’t make any strange noises, don’t pull strange faces…”

Sometimes we’re just not in the mood.  OK nix the idea that we are thinking about sex 24/7. we can be disinterested due to stress sometimes. Or If we've just had a huge meal, don’t ask for an ‘early night’. Wait for our food to go settle down , if you can stay awake that late… the beat is on!