7/04/2014

Did you know you could turn her on. with just your attributes! Part 2

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Fellahs....Did you know you could turn her on with just your attributes? part 1

Want to learn how to turn a woman on? Well, you have come to the right place. What you are about to read will give you different ways to peak a woman’s interest and can even arouse her. No this isn't about where to kiss her, and different ways to touch her body. We are talking about achieving this without ever laying a finger on her. Non physical attributes play a big role in generating attraction with a woman, and here are some that can truly have an impact.

This is one that for a lot of women isn't a huge issue if you're not. But, that doesn't mean they don't like to see a man that knows how to get his hands dirty. It doesn't mean you need to be an all out mechanic, or build furniture from scratch. It just means that knowing how to handle things around a house or on your own can be a very sexy attribute to a lot of women. It comes off as very manly and naturally women are drawn to masculine energy.

My BAD experience: the  above  might be true, but don't expect her to  grab your hands and hold them tightly until you have done a complete scrub-down after the job is done , and changed into something she likes to see you wear.. 

It is well known that making a woman laugh can take you a long way. Unlike some of the other things mentioned on this list, it probably doesn't generate as much "arousal." But, it will draw a woman more to you. We all like to smile, so learning how to have a good sense of humor is a great thing to strive for. You don't have to be stand up comic funny, and have jokes ready to go. Just remember that laughter is good for the soul and can definitely help you appear more attractive to a woman.

My BAD experience:  I hate to contradict what I just stated, but making an A-hole of yourself   in front of all her friends, get's you labeled a "clown."  If they are laughing at you , and not your jokes, this can result in an argument after you get back to her place or your place. Try the jokes out  on her in private  first,before   making a fool of yourself with her, in public!

This one right here doesn't get talked about enough, but it sure can make a difference between turning her off and turning her on. A woman likes to be desired (hopefully respectfully) but when you start to look desperate, that just isn't a good look. Understanding how to show desire without crossing the line of desperation will work in your favor. Coming off as "thirsty" (I know that term gets abused and misused a lot) will probably leave you with nothing to drink.

My BAD experience: Okay, let’s get something out of the way first: she’s probably not comparing you to Brad Pitt. Women don’t pick apart your naked self as much as you might imagine. They’re less aroused by a naked male body than they are by depictions of actual sex activity.so talk a good game!

Your words and knowing how to use them can be powerful. The ability to communicate can make you a very desirable man. That is how some men who don't have many of the other things on the list still get women. They learned how to listen, and how to seduce her mind with effective communication. A lot of women love to talk and a man that knows how to talk to them can see a huge benefit.

My BAD experience: But while the butt-naked you may not be hitting the same arousal buttons as her bared body does in your eyes, you can be sure that she is checking you out nonetheless. All of you. Studies tracking eye movement show women give men the once-over physically just as much as men do women.  So when you drop trousers in her presence, keep the following intel in mind. She is more interested in how I say, what I will do to her, than what I think she will like. 

A lot of women are sensitive to smell, so if your breath or body is a little funky, then that probably isn't going to work in your favor. Putting more effort into your hygiene is a great thing to do. A lot of men take this for granted, but when you smell fresh and clean that can make a woman want to get closer to you. Also invest in some good cologne (please don't drown yourself in it), and some type of smell good that you can use on a daily basis. Some women may like some "funk" but most are turned on by a nice smelling man.

My BAD experience: She’s hoping you smell good
If you’re smart, you’ll borrow this tip. The amygdala is very close to the olfactory bulb where your sense of smell takes place. Brain research recently found that the amygdala has been shown to play a major role in sexuality. Smells and sex have a very intimate relationship, so let her pick the scent you should wear to appear more sexy to her in bed.
This is one of the most important, if not the most important factor in turning a woman on and gaining her attention. Confidence is sexy. Women love it, and the same goes for men. If you lack confidence, your energy isn't likely to arouse her one bit. You have to see the value in who you are, and be comfortable with who you are. Just don't confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence presents itself, arrogance tends to have to announce itself. 

My BAD experience: knowing how to close the deal is important. a man  can meet a woman, charm her, land her in bed... and that's when the worrying begins. More often than not, he may reach orgasm too soon. He desperately wants his body to be cooler and calmer, to handle the great gift he's been rewarded with. When it doesn't, he feels inadequate, defective.  whatever you , don't say "Oops!" in a Governor of Texas  Rick Perry voice

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