So what does she really think about being your one night stand?

You just finished a passionate night with a semi-stranger when it hits you like a a ton of  bricks—is she really cool with the concept of no-strings-attached sex? If you randomly met her while out with your buddies, the odds that you will bed—or even meet—your fling again are usually minuscule, but you should still know what’s running through her head. Here’s your survival guide to know what she’s actually thinking the day after your one-night stand.

She doesn't want to be kicked to the curb!
Remember that you did share something pretty intimate, so don’t act like a complete stranger the next morning. Women want to know that your hookup was more than  the "wham-bam-thank you ma'am. ”  If she wakes up in your bed and you're nowhere to be found—or if you immediately shuttle her out of your place so you can start your day—she’ll instantly feel disrespected.

Even if she doesn't want anything more from your night of boot-knocking, avoid rejecting her on the spot, She’s an adult, and she made the same decision to have sex. As long as you’re honest and upfront, you’ll both feel better going your separate ways in the morning. A hand written note Telling her you like her,  will keep you from being labeled a jerk.

She doesn't want to be cut off completely! 
Women can love a solo night’s frolic in your sheets as much as you—and wipe the slate clean just as easily. But if she’s chattier than you expect while you make pancakes and eggs the next morning, she might just be trying to make the night feel more sweet than sleazy. “Don't assume just because she wants to hang a little that morning or even see you again, that she thinks you're her future husband.

An easy tip before you say your farewells: Exchange numbers or have at least one method of reaching each other. Maybe you’ll discover her necklace sitting behind your nightstand, or you must reach out for some unfortunate STD scare in the future. Worst case if she doesn't stop blowing up your cell and you've moved on: block her number.

She’s listening to you
You need to be extremely careful with your words during your tryst. “Guys don’t realize in the moment they may inadvertently drop words giving ideas of future possibilities that may evoke false hope. That especially means dropping the L-word—even if it’s that you loved that last move she did. (This includes texts or other contact in the aftermath of your romp.)

If she texts you afterward asking about what you said in bed, it’s a sign she may be interested in more. From here the ball is in your court. If you are not interested, be direct. A straight response such as, “I appreciate our night, but I’m not looking to pursue anything right now," should suffice.

She might want more
Take it in—you both probably just had an incredible night of uninhibited sex. “You’re always trying to bring you’re A-game for a hot—and worth it—one-night stand. The big problem is it could leave both of you wanting more of—possibly—the best sex of your lives. “If she enjoyed the sex, it may be harder for her to accept this is the last time she will see you.



When women orgasm, 
they release a huge amount of oxytocin. This oxytocin is a bonding hormone, and it chemically has a huge influence on the way she may see things. So she may become a high-level clinger if you don’t cut contact early. That doesn't mean you should deflect her positive vibes by being a jerk. Just don’t falsely advertise that you should go have lunch soon if that’s not what your expectations are for the relationship. 

Hide your "HALO"  so that it does not become you good guy symbol.