How do black women feel, when guys from other races approach them and seem to express interest?

Should black women Give the White Guy a Chance?

“When guys from other races approach a black woman and seems to express interest, some feel like they are their cultural project! this is interesting, because I have never asked some of my family members who  are married to men and women  of the Caucasian race, what they felt during the time they were pursued. Their spouses never  say anything offensive in my presence, but I wonder why they want a ‘sistah’ when they have not ventured over to that side before— ? 
I think this is maybe a bit Odd! or is that acoustic guitar shaped body they seldom see in their circles is  a major eye catcher!

"Odd" to me implies that it’s out of the ordinary, but I've heard this reaction from some black women toward non-black men several times. while it may seem “Odd”this  isn't the right word to describe a black woman's  reaction. “Insecure,” “defensive” or maybe “counterproductive” would be more fitting.

Here’s what’s insecure about it: Black woman might be  making extreme and quick generalizations about the non-black guy’s outlook on black women—mainly that his interest in you must be some sort of  fetish or something. But there are other ways of looking at this same scenario. There are other black women who would hear that a white guy is interested and think, “Of course he is. Why wouldn't he be, everybody loves chocolate? 

Black is beautiful.” They would take a chance on the guy,   others are quickly dismissed to see what, if anything, he has to say that might be interesting. 

Some black women cannot fathom this. Sometimes they can’t wrap their heads around the idea that anyone would want a black woman, other than a black man. Women of color have  heard from so many sources—including many black men—in so many different ways that black isn't beautiful or worthy of respect or that there’s only one “type” of black that is. It’s unfortunate that many folks buy into the racist hype.

To be fair, I have to acknowledge that there are many  non-black men who hold weird beliefs about black women. So black women you  didn't just pull that idea from the sky. Recently on Madame Noire, a black woman wrote and article , “Are You the Type of Black Girl That White Guys Like?” about her interracial dating experiences. She regularly encountered white guys who gave her backhanded compliments that revealed some unflattering stereotypes they held about black women. These guys thought that saying “You’re not loud,” “You enjoy working out,” “You’re educated” and “You’re not a ‘baby mama’” would be flattering to her. Unfortunately, the writer didn't say whether or not that made her balk.

But to be clear, it’s not race that makes guys like all of us simply interested; it’s the simple. And you can encounter it in all different colors of men, including the ones who share your hue. Avoid ignorance, at all costs, but you can’t assume that a guy is ignorant just because he’s white, any more than a white guy should assume that a black guy is a thug just because he’s black. In your outlook, you’re doing the very same thing that you’re accusing people of doing to you. It’s not fair—but then, life isn't. That outlook also won’t get you far.

In general, women across the board are less likely to date men of different races. Many men don’t have that same “loyalty”—or “hang-ups,” depending on how you look at it.  while both male and female are surfing social media to find a mate.. For various reasons, straight guys are interested in women they find attractive, and a woman’s particular hue becomes less important if he likes what he sees when he looks across the room. while  The black woman  is sticking to guy's who look like the guy right next to her on the sofa.He might be looking for Susie Wong.

The next time you’re approached by a man of any color who is attractive, interesting and respectful, give him a chance to show you what he’s about instead of assuming the worst and “quickly” shutting him down. You might appreciate how your dating pool widens when you stop eliminating prospects for no good reason. I guess after SCANDAL showed some steamy scenes. more black/white relationships have found that multiple shades of grey is now HOT.    After some personal trips to Germany in April , some  Black women knew the next new destination should be Germany for their travel group. From the iconic  cities  to art, festivals, great nightlife, and handsome blue eyed men, Germany is a fusion of old and new. Everywhere you turn there are examples of revolution  and evolution which makes for a Black Women travel. Travel women looking to enjoy the historical yet progressive cities with breathtaking splendor of Austia...
 Now these are black woman traveling  in groups  to Europe these days in search of new love interest.  maybe they will start some new trends of global Love encounters. there will be those who will pack their bags and party shoes and get ready to get their groove back and "grow in new ways!"