She can tell you that satisfaction is not only in the size

Spending time together should  feel natural and relaxed. You find yourself wanting to do things together, whether it’s going to a ball game, a movie, or out on the trail, chilling on the beach. If you are finding that you’re forcing yourself to want to spend time with her that is a warning sign.... that she isn’t the right person for you. After all, people in committed relationships spend a lot of time interacting with each other. For the most part, that should be easy to do.

Baby, I'll hold you down in every way possible!

• When you Find Mrs Right: She’s Always on Your Mind
• When you know she is  Mrs Right: makes you smile  and may even bring Laughter
• You have found  Mrs Right: She makes you feel accepted and Understood
• But What if I’m Still Struggling to Find Mrs Right?

Do you catch yourself thinking about her when you are not together? I'm not talking about times when the two of you are having phone sex. It’s the little simple moments, such as holding hands, laughing at a joke, appreciating a view, or sharing a meal together. Even talking for a long period of time on the phone. Do those moments bring  a smile, a laugh, or just make you feel good?

Does she make you laugh? Even better yet, do you both laugh together? Are you creating your own inside jokes? Does she appreciate your sense of humor? Laughter is actually an important quality, as when we laugh we are completely relaxed and our guard is down. Laughing is a time when we are the most vulnerable. When we can share that moment with someone you think might be the one, it becomes a truly special occasion.

Our partners should allow us to feel understood, accepted, and experience a sense of belonging. Don’t underestimate these qualities. When you do find Mrs Right, not only will she enhance this feeling, hopefully, she will feel the same. When your partner does good things for you don’t let her go. Find ways to foster that connection, for that is truly special.

If you are still looking for Mrs Right and not finding much success on the dating scene, consider working with a counselor. Someone who specializes in relationship counseling for men and women  may be beneficial. A counselor can help you identify areas of disconnect and help you work on communication skills that may help you meet and interact with potential companions.

Dating can be a frustrating experience. Perhaps you may  have been looking for Mrs Right for a long time. Don’t give up! Until she enters your life, seek to understand your own needs and feelings.  Prepare yourself to be with someone special and don’t be afraid to ask for help. It’s worth the time and effort to find the right match for you.

Somehow I knew this date would be  a smashing success! hello big Willie!

Final thoughts

Can you engage with a sensitive  woman  and maximize performance at the same time? It isn’t  like having  "to put in too work mentally " and having fun at the same time equal  as putting in enough work? Mden  need to recognize a women  for simply doing their part too? If you wrestle with these questions, you aren’t alone. You’re struggling with the disconnect between an outdated model of relationship management and a new world of  putting in enough work. The time for top down, compliance-based relationship management is over. To attract, retain and unleash great talent for you, a new approach is required.

  Old schoolers remember when you could put in work like this old tune 

 Satisfaction guaranteed or take your love back!