Execute the U-turn option in your relationships!

 

 

We've all been there at one point or another, where good common sense kicks in and we want to make a U-turn and change directions. Men seldom do this..... when the woman is great looking and even greater in bed, because we want our cake and cookies and don't want to loose the options we have, so we  ignore the major issues that will make us use the U-turn option.  The woman you are about to have an affair with is involved with someone else, and you don't want to  act jealous when  you see her talking to another man. There is an old saying, "the guilty can't  trust anybody." Mind you she is having an affair  and not a one on one exclusive relationship with you, this is not  on the up and up in your book. Women will read this and say.... Wait a minute , that is how men behave. Men have affairs while they are in a relationship, not women... really, are you serious? That was true 50 years ago, when your mothers stayed faithful because she had no other options, she needed the support of her man or husband who was the bread and bacon winner. The new independent woman has options her mother did not have.

Don't get me wrong I'm not a knocking   modern women, this is a reality check where we see women acting like men. She knows that there is shortage of good men, in her community, so if she can attract two men  why not, enjoy the benefits of  both, one at a location far enough away  . One guy looks good in public on her arm, (he is the guy at home) has the high profile and some financial means, while the other guy is great between the sheets (off-shore contact). I can hear the woman reading this right now; "OMG are you.....serious? "Players come in both sexes these days.  Any guy who has dealt with this..... knows what I'm talking about.

A wife complains to other wives about men behaving badly at work with their co-workers., but husband's seldom know about their wives miss-behavior with her office Husband. He  just rocks her world and makes her sexual fantasies a reality, and her husband may never ever know.

Think about the moves  you see on the movies big screen these days, "the single moms club" even weekly TV programs called "Scandal", "Mary Jane", "the good wife", and even the old TV series now in reruns "SEX and the city." These are not about men's fantasies, these fantasies are about  woman's fantasies. They play out the way men behaved in the past and may still do,  Sex in elevators, sex on the desk, sex in the limo, sex  on the hood of the car, in the mini-van etc. Think about it we guys have been doing this stuff for decades with hookers, and  girlfriends..... A movies about that stuff today is not that interesting to men, because they expose our worse fairs, that our women are doing the nasty with someone else in another city, on the beach in the Caribbean on a cool Jazz cruise, Soultrain cruise. etc.....

 

 

Now men have to wonder, about  every time they meet a woman that looks great and has a profession, Is she a player? She may be a career woman and she might be  single but she might be in a relationship, traveling to another city or Country for business or a week long get away. Now the guy who is searching for a quick exciting  adventure with a woman from out of town can go to a hotel bar during happy hours, and check out who looks like she is from out of town. He can down load  the Hotels.com app and have his cell phone ready to make a reservation and pay for it, on a moments notice without having to  go to the front desk and asking for a room.  He can play out the script as soon  as she gives him the green light. He can excuse himself and go around the corner and get the room key and then go the room. Why does a guy have to get his own room? because women seldom want to take a man back to her room. But if she is giving him  the signal that she is in a relationship a guy should execute himself and use  the U-turn option. Why? Because if  she  is so fine and traveling alone there might be  more to the story. A man's ego seldom can handle being the second choice on her priority list. So if your fragile ego can't handle it. Step away and don't even play the game. Because women seldom choose the number two option (and trust me you are the number 2 option)unless the number one option is  a complete dog and a screw up, he is on schedule to  being dumped, in her mine, and she is just waiting for the right moment to end it. If you (as the #2 option) want to risk getting your feeling hurt, you can try, but be aware you might be a good man, so you  are running the risk that you  will be playing with a losing hand.