Don’t force it, be a gentle man!
Don’t push or force yourself onto the lady, it’s not man like and it may cause her to end the date early without giving you a chance to be more intimate with her. Ladies don’t like to be pressured instead they prefer gentleness and easy going. If you wish to invite her to dinner and she refuses. Let it rest, she might have other plans that night.
Avoid being late
Every woman likes a early man. Avoid being late and if you are really interesting in your date you’ll try be on time at all times. Be reliable do not give her a time that you know you won’t meet. Don’t tell her 7 pm and then you end up arriving 8 pm, she might cancel the date before you arrive.
How to make your date most happy
There are lots of things you can do to make your date enjoy her experience with you. Take her to places she never been before. Nothing makes a woman happier than going to her dream destination. Once you are around her enough you must know what she likes the best and what makes her extremely happy. In fact you should ask her at least get her hopes up a bit. This will make her think of having a long term relationship with you. Make she feels as if she has something to look forward to but make it actually happen by a grand surprise.
The little things do matter, do little things like giving her a bouquet of flowers unexpectedly of course a box of chocolate a day or two after. Don’t dose her with chocolates everyday just once in a blue moon. Take her to the movies but not just any movie. Don’t rush wait on a specific movie that you think she would enjoy not one you would enjoy, very important.
Women like to be pampered; the beach is a nice relaxing place to be for every lady. One of those beautiful Caribbean islands would be an excited venture for her to go. Those events are unforgettable for women.
Take in consideration of your budget thou, spend accordingly. Be creative, make public proposals to her, it could be at the mall or a dinner. If she’s shy chances are she will be brave at that eventful moment.
You are at a club give the DJ a heads up that you would like to dedicate a special song to her. The song that makes her screams every time she hears it. These moments she will never forget and will always treasure.
Surprise her on an unexpected visit, if you usually meet with her at 7 in the night. Surprise her by going to see her one day at noon, bring her lunch on the way and a bouquet of flowers. Take note of her facial expression you might be the first to do something so special for her.
You can give her gifts indirectly leaving her in a state of curiosity but in a good way of course. In doing this you could send something special to her from a gift shop with even your friend to deliver .Write a pleasant note of admiral and of how she makes you feel. Express your feelings for her, you don’t have to write a poem just be honest and brief with your words.
If your lady is outgoing then you might want to take her out on special events that she follows. She might even want to go out with her friends only. Give her freedom of parting with friends, try not to let her feel as if she is in confinement and you are watching her every move.
In conclusion happiness is vitally important to every woman so you should always make the time and effort to maintain a happy dating relationship.
Don’t dress shabby
A lady likes when her date is well dress. You should dress to fit the occasion. Having a dinner at an elegant venue requires a formal or semi formal dressing. You wouldn't want to wear baggy jeans with a tie head, a Jersey shirt reaching your legs and 10 chains hanging around your neck. Instead you could just wear a decent long sleeve shirt with a close fitting jeans and forget chain, that’s it, simple but clean cut fitting the occasion.
Dodge multiple dating
Avoid dating multiple girls at the same time if you are seriously interesting in one particularly one. Reason I say this is; you might be out with your special date making every use of the moments you spending with her trying not to screw anything up. But of course that other girl you were flirting with but weren't really interested in comes along, sees both of you and ruins the moment by claiming to be your girlfriend.
Stay away from the crowd
Avoid taking your date around to many friends. One or two is good for a night out but not a crew of your peeps. You might get distracted from her and she might become distracted as well. Spend quality time with her alone at a park or a dinner, or even chatting online with her could give you quality time with her. You get to know her likes and dislikes and know exactly what to do to make her more happy this way. And most importantly be more open and honest at this point.
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