Find Ways to Balance Friends and a Girlfriend

INTRO
allow me to introduce a new concept.
You've seen it before—guy meets girl, guy gets girl, and guy seemingly falls off the face of the Earth. Odds are you've lived it out at some point. Pulling a disappearing act with your friends when you are first involved with her is common. She has your nose wide open, she put a ring through your nose  and you're henpecked... Oooh, now what?
It has a cost. In fact, My experience tells me  that a guy loses an average of two people from his core group of friends when he enters a romantic relationship. that is BAD news fellows.
Be careful, as romances can come and go. It’s best not to burn bridges with your buddies over one flame that is a starter fire. Striking a balance between your  bro times and your new fling can be tricky—but it can be done. Here’s how you can manage the balancing act.

SET GROUND RULES
You just met somebody—she may even be the one—so you want to spend more time with her. Just make sure your pals know that’s how you feel about her, too. If you communicate how much time you think you’ll be devoting to her early on, it allows them to adjust their expectations of you and prevents them from thinking you've gone MIA.

Just don’t expect all your friends to be on board at first. Accept that your best friends might feel jealousy or rejection. Keep in mind the person entering a relationship has been enriched, while the other people will have a loss. And if your buddy isn't happy for you, you might not have a healthy friendship to begin with. He may be too dependent or needy—in that case, you may want to re-evaluate your friendship or make it clear that you’re not trying to shove him out of your life forever.

CONNECT IN NEW WAYS
At first, you’ll have less time to hang together like you did before the relationship, but that doesn't mean all is lost. Your friendship might become more dependent on technology—texting and emails, fantasy leagues, sending articles. Spending time together may become more difficult, so develop rituals with your friends via tech, like playing Madden one night a week,  or even a quick Face-Time while you’re both watching a game.

GET HER IN YOUR CREW

Instead of keeping the relationships in separate spheres, involve your friends in your new relationship. Bring her along to an event you know you all will enjoy. For example, if she’s really into basketball, have her come along when you meet your buddies for a tailgate and game, or gym time. She’ll get to know your friends in a friendly environment. Don't bring her along to poker night or Xbox tournaments.

DOUBLE UP

Obviously bringing just one pal along on a date can be awkward as the third wheel, but if the possibility for a double date is there, go for it. Double dates with another couple greatly strengthen your friendship. Couples on a double date—whether it's dinner out or at home—allows for more intimate conversation. And it has a hidden benefit: it get her hotter for you while also getting you time with your friend. Couples claimed afterward that this kind of date increased the passion in their relationship because they learned more about each other. Bonus! More hot  passionate Sex!

BENEFITS OF GUYS' NIGHT

Both people in the relationship should be working to maintain their friendships. This keeps either partner from becoming too dependent on the other. So when you have a night planned with the guys, suggest that she plan something with her girlfriends. Plus, you can legitimately claim that guys' night is good for your health. Men who got together twice a week were healthier, recovered from illness more quickly, and tended to be more generous. (You can also reinvent your guys’ night with a few simple tips.)
Warning: dance clubs, with wet Pole dancers, could be  cool.. but she does not like you going it could spell...... T R O U B L E!

Now this was written from a BAD guy's perspective.. but If  Ladies reading this try to understand the guys perspective they could adjust easier and try to fit in instead of taking over their new man's life.....