3/31/2014

Ladies! Do simple things to keep him from wandering


These simple things  will bring wandering minds right back to you.
Lets face it ladies men are not that hard to figure out: 
  • A man wants to make you proud. But he won’t necessarily come straight out and say how psyched he is about his accomplishments. That’s where you come in, especially since letting your man know you’re impressed when he comes home from, say, a big-deal day at work makes it clear you’re paying attention to the details of his life.
  • It’s flirtatious, playful, and a perfect statement to try out when you’re both elbow-deep in weekend cleanup duty. Sex is an important part of your relationship—even when it’s not the first thing on your mind—and by bringing it up out of context, you’re reminding him of that. It’s good for your bond, and makes it more likely an encore performance will occur ASAP.
  • No matter what else is going on, a simple expression of gratitude goes a long way toward resetting the conversation. Say you and he come in the door after a totally insane day. Before you launch into your usual what-did-you-do-today conversation, thank your man for something he did earlier. Even if you reference an act as minor as sending you a LOL link, it’s an instant connector statement that puts you both on the same page.
  • I'm  not saying you should always take charge of date night, but if you've been trying to get one on the calendar for months, taking the plan-making reins can be super-sexy. “Being spontaneous can remind you both that not only do you share commitment and stability, but you also have fun in common,

  • If you notice someone giving your man a backward glance, letting him in on the news is a harmless stroke to his ego—and to your relationship. Obviously, you shouldn't be spending every second scanning the room—or giving the stink eye to women who may also find your man attractive—but it’s great to let him know you feel lucky he’s yours. Showing your partner that you acknowledge that others find him attractive boosts his self-esteem.It also indicates that you’re comfortable with your bond and not jealous of strangers.
  • Men are typically insecure about shopping for their woman, so if he’s given you something you love, the benefits of cluing him in are twofold. Knowing not only gives you a good chance of receiving a similar gift in the future, but it also shows that you acknowledge him—not just the present. Surveys of long-term couples show that while women want to feel desired, men most want to feel appreciated.
  • Occasionally wagering things—from how "True Detective" will end to whether his annoying coworker will once again decide to serenade the happy hour crew with "I'm the Man by Aloe Blacc at karaoke—gives you an inside joke to add to your arsenal, which can make you feel even more like you’re on the same team. In addition, the competitive angle adds a little bit of spiciness to your connection—especially if the reward is X-rated.
  • and last but not least: send him a text with this pic and the Question: Are you her Daddy?LOL. 

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