Why Would You Want to be with Someone Who Doesn't Want You?

The idea that opposites attract is bull crap! It sounds clever but in reality it makes no sense. Try dating someone with opposite values or opposite attitudes about sex, marriage, raising children, healthy lifestyles, religion, and even cleanliness. The word we should be looking for is compliment, or compatible, not opposite.
Which brings me to my point, when things don't work out between couples it's usually because they have opposite views on something of importance, the question is, why then do we torture ourselves over it ending? Disappointed yes, sad, maybe, but devastated hell no! The only reason anyone should be crushed by losing a partner is when they have wasted valuable time, money, resource that can not be recovered and maybe  their health has been impacted, other then that, your attitude should be, "Thanks for the lesson...NEXT!"
Trust your instincts and walk away when it's obvious that you don't want the same things. It's hard enough to stay together when you have chemistry and compatibility, but you have no chance of making it work, and more importantly, no chance of being happy when you have to force your way into a person's life!


There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, forget about  the ones who didn't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is truly  living

From the time  we were kids  we were  told to love everyone. However, when you don’t like someone then you need to walk away and focus not on him or her, but the dislike  you’re harboring you need a release from this. Otherwise, you will allow your piety to take over. Before you know it, you’re using every word  as a sword to slice up  the  other person into pieces. From your point of helplessness, it will be easy to recruit people that will mistake your kindness as righteousness, when in reality it is a hidden agenda to humiliate through the words you use. This game is so often used by women in or after a bad relationships, that it is the number one reason why many people become inactively involved in a relationship. It is a silent, unspoken hypocrisy that is inconsistent. If you choose not to like someone, then avoid them. If you have gotten to the point where you don't  love them anymore , then let them just walk away. don't hold on to your  frustrations ,  release them and let forgiveness be your savior.  Therefore  allowing yourself time to heal through distance. Try focusing on what you shared on the positive   rather than the negative aspects you dislike about that person now.

Victory is ,of cutting off the chains and leaving iron ball behind, which  is like a boxer that hangs up  his or her  gloves, after consecutive losses; sometimes walking away is what builds character, than the actual fight. Avoid feeling  like humble fruit on a tree that falls to the ground and rots, never finding appreciation in the taste of any ones mouth. Say goodbye, as the scars will prevent you  from coming back!