YOU’RE NOT TOUCHING ENOUGH!

I've mentioned to  many guys who have a hard time getting down the concept of touching women that they’re interested in. It’s most likely because you’re raised thinking you should keep your hands to yourself. Then again I was also raised believing that you’re only allowed to urinate in bathrooms, yet I've marked my territory around  every Tree in my neighborhood, Just kidding.   So sometimes the things you’re taught as a kid are come with time limits and some are  complete B.S?

If you have ever been rejected for a kiss it’s most likely because you haven’t touched enough. If you kept your hands to yourself all night, and then suddenly try to get a kiss from your date, you’re going to come off too strong. It makes you seem like that creepy cousin at the Christmas Eve party who collects insects, and smells funny, who is quite all night, but after a few drinks he has his arm around all the female cousins, telling them how much he loves them and that the  two of them  should hang out more often.

So do yourself and your date a favor, start touching sooner  during the main course, don't wait till dessert to offer her a taste of how sweet your cheese cake is.

I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX ON THE FIRST DATE

My mom used to tell me it was rude to talk about sex with a woman, unless you guys were exclusively dating, I often wondered about that. And I’m sure many mothers have told many sons the same thing, because “that’s not what gentlemen do”. Just because I would do consensual-ly unholy things to a woman in  my car, doesn't mean I won’t hold the door open for her after we’re done. Talking about sex doesn't have to be rude. As a matter of fact have you ever met anyone who doesn't like sex? So why wouldn't someone want to talk about it?

If you transition the conversation in a matter that makes sense no one will be offended for talking about sex. If she’s talking about her recently deceased dog, and you say “Interesting…did you lose your virginity before or after you got your puppy” then it’ll just seem like you’re an idiot. So guys don’t be afraid to talk about sex, everyone likes talking about sex in the right setting.


TAKE HER TO YOUR FAVORITE  DATE SPOT

According to romance movies the ideal first date is dinner and a movie. Then again according to romance movies it’s completely acceptable to wait outside a girls window and watch her undress and climb into bed and go to sleep , so is pretty much any other form of stalking. But in reality if you text a woman too much she’ll be turned off( in sharp contrast men know a woman want him by the  amount of text we get from a woman in the morning , at lunch time before she leave the job and then again as she is getting ready for bed, and if  you have skills to turn her PC camera into you window into her room you can  watch her sleep from the comforts of you home and not from  a tree outside her window , if you get caught you’ll probably end up sodomized in your friendly local  penitentiary.

So if you take a girl for dinner and a movie on the first date, you’re most likely going to be spending a ton of money and end up going nowhere (she might like it, and also expect that kind of treatment every time you ask her out) . I think smart guys  take girls to happy hour at his favorite bar, while others like to take girls on picnics, and usually end up spending about twenty bucks.

You should be doing what you like to do, and not what you think you should be doing ( because it is in some handbook , a movie directed by Steve Harvey) . Because what you think you should be doing probably hasn't been working out too well so far.                                             Try listing to this old school jam.