Hmmm! Men Are Afraid Of Independent Women?

Why?  Independent Women are just women ..... Right?

Men are afraid of independent women because of societal norms that have been propagated throughout history. Men have been the heads of households in the world for most of recorded history, and societies have been established to benefit men. Women who are strong and independent do not need a man to run their lives or manage the household. Women’s standards have increased so much over the past few decades that men have been completely stricken by the strong women they meet.

My BAD perspective is: The words "strong women" are taken out of context... Women throughout the ages have been strong for over a century....... just that today's independent women have to be stronger because they don't have a fall back. Having to deal with all of life's stresses... is challenging enough, which make these women less willing to put up with the male fragile  ego of  having to worry that he has to compete with her success, to impress her!  

#1:  Independent Women Are More Than Looks

Many men become instantly afraid of women they meet who are massively intelligent or successful. A beautiful woman is just a beautiful woman until a man talk to her, and men are intimidated by a woman who can take care of herself. The male archetype of breadwinner and protector is not always accurate, and a woman who has a good life without a man seems impossible to please. Men often give up until they find a woman who is needy.

My BAD perspective is: Most men see "independent women" as movie star types, where Rihanna and Beyonce are at the top of the charts... women in the corporate world have similar public admiration. any man who walk into a gala on her arm is a back drop  filler. instead of the guy and his date. Men with  pride  don't want  play second violin. men never want  to be the shadow.

#2: Women Are Interdependent

Women have support systems that involve many other women and sensitive men. There are men searching for women today who do not understand the social structures women have. A woman has friends to talk to about her relationships, and a woman does not necessarily need to have a romantic relationship to be deeply intimate with someone. Women get emotional intimacy from their friends, and men are often unable to provide that level of intimacy.
My BAD perspective is: Heads up... women can go to their Male hair dresser (sensitive men) and talk about their encounters with men. Women can have "let's all exhale" sessions with their BFF(s). Intimacy has become the requirement.. and  many men see intimacy without sex as a waste of time.


#3:  Independent Women Have Male Friends And Standards

Women who are strong and independent have male friends who have raised the bar for any man she might date. A woman does not need a man who cannot treat her at least as well as her male friends or her brothers. Women whose best friends are men often compare their relationships to their friendships, and anyone who is not a true gentlemen is not worth the time a woman must put into the relationship.

My BAD perspective is: Every totally independent woman has girlfriends who are married to  that guy who fits that not so stereo typical "perfect man"  need I say more. these guy spoil it for Joe Average. 


#4:  Independent Women Are Not Babysitters

Women have been expected to babysit their boyfriends and husbands throughout the centuries, but the modern woman will not babysit a man she dates. Men must be able to manage their own lives without help from their girlfriends, and a woman who must manage your life will drop you in a heartbeat. You must get yourself out of a misogynistic mindset before you approach a strong and independent woman.

My BAD perspective is: Seldom do men kick-start their adult lives by being home owners.... having your own place, is put on the list for when a man has found  the "one"  she will choose the home he will invest in, she will pick the furniture, she will decorate the dwelling in her "feng shui" style. Most men unless we are subscriber to Architectural digest  don't know what we want.. we are waiting to be shown what we like ... so being shown has a few problems it's an ego deflating scenario.