So where could we go wrong?

Loving someone with all your heart isn't what got you hurt. Trying to love the wrong person for all the wrong reasons was the real issue....
"You can't be scared of love, and then expect to find it..... Heal from your past, and then you'll be able to receive it." 
Have you played the game where you drop  these conditions on someone: 

• IF you love me, you would .... (fill in the blank) 
• IF you value me, you would.....( fill in the blank) 
• IF you want the best for me, you would.... (fill in the blank) 
• IF I'm the keeper of you heart, you would....(fill in the blank) 

How many times have these types of conditions not work out, in you favor. Leading to disappointments and even break ups!!
When you were Daddy's princess you thought things would turn out perfect when you grow-up.  however .....these things turn out not be true!

• No One Will Ever Hurt You

You don’t want to be hurt, so you want to believe it. But the bottom line is that it just isn’t true. Everyone, no matter that person’s sex, is going to get hurt at some point in life. It’s better to know this and to accept it than to be disenchanted when someone hurts you.

• Prince Charming is Out There, So Is the White Horse

Maybe he is. Maybe he has a white horse, too. But that isn’t the case for everyone. At our base, we are human beings who hurt it each other. It’s better to find a person that you can accept for imperfections and still love than to idealize a fantasy romantic partner.

•  Life is Easy

Life can be easy. It can be fun and happy. But it also can be tragic. A healthy life and a healthy relationship is one in which these two realities are held in balance.

• He Won’t Play You

He will play you. Maybe you’ll play him, too. That’s the odd and difficult journey of the dating world. It’s not right. Some people are more mature than others and have better character. You’re looking for that person. So keep looking until you find him or her.

•  Dad Won’t Let You Down

Being Daddy’s little girl is a wonderful thing. But even Dad can let you down. The basic premise of this entire blog post is that we can’t put all of our trust and admiration in one person alone. We have to accept imperfections, learn to stand on our own, give forgiveness and love freely.

•  You Can Have it All

To have a career, a marriage and a family is possible. But no woman who says she has it all will say it didn’t come without some sacrifice in some category. It’s not fair, but it is reality for a woman in the modern world.

Maybe a different approach might work. check off the don't and find your do(s)
  

• Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of age.
• Don't marry because you are getting older,
• Don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially..... 
• Don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant.
• Don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, 
• Don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see.

• Don't marry because all your friends are getting married

But get married because you are in love, get married because he or she is your best friend and when that love is no longer the same , he or she can still make you smile....!