Don't rush it, wait and do it right!

There are  many reasons why it is not a good idea to live with your lover before marriage.

We both like yellow, so we like the same things!

Couples in such relationships may grow apart in  the long run if they lived together for the wrong reasons. Cohabitation is a big step to take in any relationship and both parties involved have to consider the pros and cons before living under the same roof.
Couples in such relationships may grow apart "just because," if they lived together for the wrong reasons. this is one bad side of couples cohabiting. If you and your partner are thinking of living together, here are some wrong reasons to make that decision:

Did you spend this much money? Seriously?

1. to avoid or hasten a marriage proposal: this is specifically for the man, as much as living together means everything except that you aren't married to her. Slowing down on a marriage proposal or hastening it may work out badly  because it's the wrong reason to live together.

Women often have trouble deciding on which shoes to wear,
I'm sure they which they had that many choice s as far as men.

2. to help you discover yourself: You can never discover your true self by living with your partner. Rather, moving in together would make complicate things for both of  you become more complicated.

3. to save cash:  if you think you'll save more money by moving in with your partner. It's better to go get a roommate. couples who decide to do this should have good jobs so one doesn't become a liability to the other.

4: If you see it as a fun challenge: cohabitation requires a lot of determination on both sides, it's not like a fun challenge as you might see it. Remember you will see this person every day in the space that you would normally consider as your unique personal space.



On the other side of the coin. things could work out  in the today method of meeting someone new.

So you brought your side-kick?

In Search Of Friendship, People have been known to find  True Love,
They could even make that illusive Love Connection for example:
They  meet on an online date website,”  They both took a chance and even though they  were just looking for someone to hang out with more so than dating seriously , things blossomed beyond their  control once they  met in-person. she brought a friend with her just to be safe.  but the sparks were there from the beginning.

The Past experiences

these fruits are just perfect for me!

Prior to meeting a new lady  you might have been like me. I  use to  consider myself a serial dater once I became a single man again, I even believed I  needed to move to a new country, because the dating scene just wasn’t working for me where I lived. Especially being in an area for so long, most eligible daters were connected to someone I knew, and that just wasn’t the road I wanted to travel. I recommend making moves that opens up  new possibilities.  Ignore the obvious things you think you like and want. Self centered folks are  in greater numbers out there. They only see things one way. What's in it for me?  I will do for myself until someone steps up and does these things for me. You have to be willing "to give to receive." not the other way around!

The Chemistry is very important

He likes red apples!

In the beginning you might  try not to feel something. So much so, that it makes you have a stronger connection. Once you step back and realized how careful and raw you've  had been to maintain this open space with each other, it may help you  realize that you are  really just setting  your lives up to be awesome mates for each other.

I have created a list of the things she likes to eat, I
 need to have these  when she comes over!

The stranger becomes "The One!"
Before her, you  called what you  were doing interviewing, but she taught you  the essence of it. You feel respected and it is genuine. She met you where you  were in your life as a whole and helped you get over your  jaded heart beat to a more purposeful rhythm.

After a while you will just let the Feeling flow!