Every woman has things she needs in a relationship

Women hang with the girls,
and support each other 

 When a relationship ends we dwell on the past, on what could have been, on all the promises broken and lies told. Or maybe we’re just sad because we have to start over.
But healthy relationships, even when they end, should leave you with more optimism than pain. If you truly loved your partner you should accept that he or she is in a better place and therefore so are you.

Now, stop feeling sorry for yourself and get out there and enjoy life. I can assure you that your Ex has moved on and is having a blast! ~ Michael Baisden



My perspective on what men can do to not repeat the past mistakes that usually cause relationships to end:

If you screw up you might have to chase her all over again.
to get her back!

Women want her man to be someone they can rely on, depend on and confide in along with making her feel secure , happy and loved.  However, when things like insensitive remarks , little hurts and frustration pile up in a long term relationship, she might get to the point where she simply says" enough is enough" and asked you to leave, or she leaves. 
It's a general rule that when your Lady decides to leave, you've done something wrong. Chances are, you've done a lot of things wrong and depending on your situation she probably left you for reasons you din't think about until after it's over. 
Take note of the following things that could cause a relationship to go South.. ....permanently: 


Lack of Attention
Women love it when their men notice things about them and actually talks and listens to them. If there is lack of communication and she notices, she's  likely to feel unsatisfied in the relationship even if every thing else is going well. Listen to her when she talks. If she doesn't feel like she's receiving love and attention from you , she'll eventually start thinking she can find someone who will treat her right.

Lack of Appreciation.
Women do a lot more than men tend to give the credit for, so appreciate the little things your lady does for you. be sure you compliment her on her attire or how good she does things. Let her know that you do appreciate her doing things for you. 

Lack of emotional support
women are unique creatures and they require a lot of emotional support. they need to feel loved, needed and emotionally connected to their men, women want their emotions met which means t they are supportive of you, they would like you to be supportive of them. If you cannot meet her emotional needs, it's most likely she will turn elsewhere for companionship... 

Lack o Intimacy.

Men often need clarity as to what this intimacy is!

women do not want to feel as if you only want them for  sex. they want true intimacy, which means physical contact without sex sometimes. If you only come around her when you want sex, she will be become dissatisfied and will not even want to be touched by you. 


Lack of ambition.
 Women who are ambitious will seek out partners who are also ambitious. women like to date men whom they can move forward with and they like to look ahead and see a bright future. women want to know that a man can take care of himself and her, so having an unfavorable lifestyle and showing no signs of maturity can make a woman leave you in a heart beat. 

 Controlling behavior
Most women want men who will protect them and make them feel safe but they don't want a dictator. women do not want their guy to tell them where to go , when to leave, who to talk to, or what to wear. dating a guy with a controlling nature can be pretty scary for women and this will cause them to end the relationship.

Abusive behavior.
Abusive is not only physical, it can also take a verbal form. being deceitful, having a short fuse, being overly-critical and belittling someone to make them feel worthless is also a type of abuse. displaying these negative behaviors will cause her to leave you. Nobody wants to be with someone who is abusive.