Good Women vs. Bad Apples

Good Women vs. Bad Apples, By Michael Baisden

Good women aren’t appreciated as much these days. The obnoxious ones who show their ass get all the attention.
It must be hard as hell to be a good woman nowadays. With so much attention being given to women who are loud, ignorant, and showing half their asses, it can be difficult for a quality woman to stand out. I’m certain that many of you have had your share of attacks and negative comments. Being beautiful and intelligent is bad enough but add class and integrity and you almost become alien.
Now, throw in a sprinkle of open mindedness and ambition and now you’ve just gone too far. Not only are you a threat to other women but an insecurity issue for most men.
It’s not that men can’t appreciate a good woman or that they‘re insecure or intimidated. The truth is most men don’t want to put in the work or be accountable to a good woman, and who could blame them with so many desperate women lowering their standards just to have a warm body to lay next to at night.
All I can tell you ladies is never settle and maintain your high standards. There are plenty of men like myself that prefer to climb to the top of the tree to pick our fruit rather than pick up those bad apples off the ground.

Have a great day and always keep your head up! In my eyes you will always be Queens but it takes a King to see you. ~Michael Baisden

My perspective on  the good(s) and Bad(s) of the good woman

She’s nice and dependable:

Let me call him and make sure he has eaten well today!

Kind of like your Labrador, this woman  will never let you down. Think of her as the Topanga to your Cory. If you’re in a bad mood, she’ll be there to do anything in her power to cheer you up. She actually cares about your feelings, and your happiness is important to her.
She rarely bitches at you just because you’re a man. If you messed up, she probably won’t flip out, rather she’ll have a nice wholesome conversation with you about how to fix the situation. She’s is the mediator of your relationship.

Low Mileage:
The best part about good women is the low number of notches on the bed post. Don’t get me wrong, they are semi-experienced; it’s just that their experience won’t make your pee burn. Also, since she hasn’t had sex with that many guys, she consequently won’t have that many men to compare you to, so even if you suck in bed, you’ll be alright.

Makes a good wife, mother, best friend:

Oooh he is perfect just like you!

The typical good woman is nurturing, down to earth, and responsible. Whether men like to admit it or not, our DNA is biological programmed to find a mate with which we  can settle down and start a family. Good women generally come from good families.

In many cases we want to carry on these good morals and values into a family of our own. She can also be your best friend. She truly enjoys your company, misses you when you’re gone, and showers you with attention when you’re home … this gets back to the Labrador theory I mentioned before.

OK enough with the delusional fantasies....!

Now for the bad(s) of the good woman:

She’s vanilla:
Life with a good woman  can be as exciting as watching your hair grow. They generally tend to be homebodies and like to curl up with a good book. Although this is alright behavior for a rainy Sunday, it transcends into weekend habits as well. Think Katie Holmes circa Dawson’s Creek when all she wanted to do was sit by that shitty creek, cuddling underneath the stars.

I wonder what his reaction would be if he saw me this way!

She chooses comfort:
She often chooses comfort over fashion. The hair is pulled back in a practical way. She wears very little make-up. She forgoes the high heels and sexy dresses for sweats that she feels “herself” in. She wears underwear that can be used for hand gliding; and the list goes on.
Basically, she just doesn’t put any effort into keeping her man, excited about her. Don’t get me wrong, every guy loves a woman that can be herself around him. However, sometimes it’s necessary to throw away sensibility and trade it in for sexy. <smirking>

She’s boring in bed:
Like I’ve said before, good women typically have low mileage. Although this may seem perfect for you on some nights, it may also come back to bite you on the ass. For example, there’s a good possibility that you’re going to have to be the one to constantly initiate sex which can get repetitive and boring.
Chalk it up to inexperience or lack of desire, but good  women tend to leave the manliest part of a man very unfulfilled. In which case, he will probably start to stray towards the bad girl with the nipples peeking through her shirt and the long wraparound legs.

Don't lock yourself out of heaven!

I will write about The good(s) of the bad girl in another blog post. Tune back in!