It was great for however long it lasted!

How to rid yourself of Emotional Attachments to Someone Who Stopped Loving You.

So that's it we are done!

“Nothing in the universe can stop you from letting go and starting over.” – Guy Finley

You've heard of falling in love, but hardly ever do you come across people who have fallen out of love. Is this even possible? Can your partner suddenly stop loving you? Before  answering that question, you must know that there’s a huge difference between ‘loving’ and ‘being in love’.

“Falling out of love is one of those awful parts of life that we don’t want to think about until we sense that it’s happening to us. At first, we think we’re imagining things, it’s rare that we stop and ask ourselves, “does s/he still love me?” But pretty soon it becomes clear that something is really, really wrong.”

Letting go of someone that you never thought you would have to let go of is a difficult thing. When someone has stopped loving you, it may feel like the world won’t continue spinning. However, we all know that isn’t true. Letting go and moving forward with life is entirely possible, and it’s the healthy solution to having to say goodbye to someone you once loved.

When it’s time to let go and say goodbye, we are often left wondering how to go about doing that. After all, it’s not something that’s taught to us in school. Here are the best ways to let go of someone who’s stopped loving you, and move forward to a better and healing tomorrow.

1. UNDERSTAND WHY YOU BROKE UP

What was it about the relationship that wasn’t working? What caused the rift that had the both of you part ways in the first place? If you can’t pinpoint the exact reason, you may want to do some thinking as to what went wrong in the relationship. This doesn’t mean that it was your fault, or their fault, or anyone’s fault at all.

Sometimes, people just don’t work out in a relationship. That doesn’t mean that there has to be a good guy and a bad guy in the break up story. Even if it still hurts, understanding why the relationship ended is a first step to allowing yourself to let them go and learn to say goodbye.

If you’re still on speaking terms, see if your ex would be willing to talk to give you closure. If things are still awkward, try talking it out with a friend. Keep in mind, you may not always understand why. Human emotions are complicated, and the reasons for a breakup may be hard or impossible to understand.

For the life of me I don't  get it!
It's over and you are not explaining why!

2. TAKE YOUR TIME

You don’t need to get over your heartbreak right away. There’s a reason that the phrase “time heals all wounds” is as popular as it is. While it may not be true in the sense that time heals ALL wounds, it is true that taking your time can make healing a lot easier. If you try to push yourself into feeling better and bottle up how you’re feeling, it’s only going to come back ten times harder than before.

Sometimes time shows us that the feelings we felt were only to be felt in passing — as we passed on by and on to the next individual we love. That’s why you have to give time a chance. Even if it doesn’t do the trick of healing all your wounds, it will most certainly numb the pain. It will turn those vivid memories into blurry renditions,” says entrepreneur Paul Hudson.

The most important thing to do when you’re learning to let go is to let yourself take all the time you need in order to heal. One day, you’ll wake up and realize that you aren’t feeling the same pain as you did when it first happened.


3. UNDERSTAND WHY YOU NEED TO LET THEM GO

Relationships don’t always end completely. There are times where a relationship can be rekindled and put back together. However, when you’re saying goodbye to someone who has stopped loving you, it’s best to understand that the relationship is not likely to be fixed. Sometimes, we need to understand that relationships end so that we can move forward and find that others special relationship that we’re meant to enjoy being in.