Men avoid admitting these things, because their Boyz might LOL.

Ladies, did you know that some men secretly love these "girly" things....


Many of women don’t realize, but men have a lot of pressure placed on them by society. There’s a lot required for you to be considered “manly”. Especially when it comes to relationships. We act the way we do because that’s what we believe to be socially acceptable.

For example, being a man, in our
 eyes, means always making the first move, chasing the girl (not vice versa) and not suggesting extra cheese on the Pizza. But this is just a front we put up to be considered a man. In reality, this isn’t always the case, as to who we really are.

According to Elite Daily and many other publications, there are so many “girly” things that men enjoy that people would just not expect. In addition to that, there are things that men secretly like when they are in a relationship, or when they are into a girl that no one would expect.

Here are a few of those things. Remember, these things are only considered a secret because society makes us believe it makes men less “manly” if they think like this. But in reality…it’s who the man is!



1. When a man  finds the right woman, men love romantic and cheesy gestures (like painting in the buff).But because of society giving them the belief that they have to be masculine, they get a bit shy. But not only do they love doing romantic things for their women,  they love it when women do romantic things for them!

When you invited me over to pain
I had no idea this is what you had in mind!

2. Guys LOVE watching their woman eat. Glamour posted some things that guys have admitted to secretly loving, one writing “When my wife gets hot chocolate with whipped cream on top, she takes two coffee stirrers and uses them like chopsticks to eat all the cream” (Chris Hermosilla). They love when their partner eats messy or has silly little habits when eating.


3. Men LOVE when women initiate things. I mean, they can’t be the only ones doing all the work, right? Women shouldn’t be worried to show equal interest and initiate a text, or even a hangout, or going to the extreme... ( NUDE couples art clssses) It shows confidence, which men find seriously attractive!

Are you sure this.... is
for your art class!

4. When men offer help, it’s not to make themselves seem more superior. Men are actually fully aware that ladies are more than capable of handling themselves. But by letting men help out, it actually makes them feel wanted and accepted. If you sound needy,  it’s actually kind of sweet!



5. Asking “can we try something new” when it comes to the bedroom is something that both men and women want but are afraid to say it out loud. Men especially are worried that they’ll be judged. So you think of ways that can spice up life in the bedroom with your partner, noting that every couple has certain moves on their bucket list and are too worried to suggest it. JUST Do it!



6. Society makes us believe that “real men” don’t need to be praised. But in reality, men do love it when there is a bit of well-intentioned objectification. That means squeezing their biceps or complimenting them on their outfit, for example.



7. When women pay the bill. Hey wait a minute, there are women who enjoy paying the bill on the first date. Society has given the impression that a man is supposed to pay for the woman's meal—but it doesn’t have to be this way! The topic is complex depending on who you ask. Some men enjoy paying for women because it makes them feel like they can treat the person they are interested in. Others think that the bill should be split (going Dutch.)

Are you suggesting we go Dutch!

Final note: Going back to WHO pays.... if the woman invites the man to breakfast, lunch or dinner... Then think of it this way... if you fix the meal yourself (you are paying for the meal) so if you don't trust your cooking enough to impress him..... then take him to a restaurant, coffee shop or where ever ... and pay the bill.
As a man .... I have cooked for women... (because I know how to impress her with my skills...in the kitchen)  I prefer to giving her the B.A.D. special treatment... instead of  letting some second rate chef (want to be famous ) get the praise......(smirking)!