There are good reasons a guy stares into your eyes deeply

 

If a man engaging in deep eye contact with you?

You might Wonder what it means?

While locking eyes with a stranger from across the room seems like the stuff movies are made of, there is actually a lot of complex things happening in your brain to make this moment magical and memorable.

You probably already know that prolonged eye contact with a guy is both exciting and maybe a little bit intimidating.

There’s a lot going on between two people when they lock eyes, but how can you trust what you think you’re seeing and what if what you think is going on is not actually going on? .

Here are some of the things eye contact might mean for you.

1. Yes, he is probably flirting

Okay, let’s cut right to the chase: yes, he is probably flirting with you if he is trying to lock eyes with you.

The hope is that he wants to make a deeper connection with you and lets you know by looking longingly into your eyes.

Of course, the other option is that you’ve got something in your teeth and he’s trying to get your attention, but more often than not, it’s because he likes what he sees. So calm down!

Keep in mind that many guys will glance your way to see if they catch you looking to figure out if you’re attracted to them.

This doesn’t necessarily mean that he is ready to take it further with you.

He might be trying to boost his own ego.

After all, if he knows that girls are looking at him it will probably make him feel better about himself.

Women do the same thing, too.

And this is particularly the case with eye contact because it’s a non-threatening way of flirting or engaging with other people.

2. He is attracted to you

An interesting thing still happens in the dating scene: love at first sight.

Sometimes, you walk into a room and you lock eyes with a guy 50 feet away from you and you can’t move.

You start to sweat, you feel an immediate connection with him.

Well, what if when you walk in, he is already staring at you?

It’s probably the same story for him: and he can’t look away.

However, when it comes to men and eye contact, there are some important caveats to consider based on the guy’s personality.

For example, if he is the shy type, then he will look at you but immediately look away when you catch him looking.

And this might happen a few times as well.

After all, if he likes you then he can’t keep his eyes off you.

So to look out for whether the guy is shy but attracted to you, see if he looks at you multiple times but then immediately looks away when you catch him.

On other hand, if the guy is confident and direct with how he is feeling, he will sustain eye contact with you when he catches you looking.

If he likes you, he will most likely use eye contact along with a smile, or maybe even a wink, as a way of letting you know that he is attracted to you.

If you’re attracted to him as well, you can return eye contact and smile back.

If he starts to blush or smiles back, then you know he is definitely attracted to you.

3. He wants to be your hero

If a guy can’t take his eyes off you, then you know there is a reason.

And as we’ve discussed, the most likely reason is that he is attracted to you.

And if he is attracted to you, then he probably wants to be your hero.

Huh?

Well, there’s a new concept in relationship psychology that’s generating a lot of buzz at the moment. And it explains why men act around women in certain ways, including staring deeply into their eyes.

It’s called "the Hero instinct."

According to the hero instinct, a man will only fall in love with a woman when he feels like he is her provider and protector. Someone that she genuinely needs in her life.

In other words, men want to be your hero. I know it sounds a bit silly. In modern times, women don’t need someone to be their “hero” to save the day.

And I couldn’t agree more.

But here’s the ironic truth. Men do still need to feel like they are a hero. After all, it’s built into their DNA to seek out a relationship with a woman that makes them feel like a hero.

And the kicker?

A man won’t fall in love with a woman when this thirst isn’t satisfied. So if your man is giving you prolonged deep eye contact then it’s likely that he is falling for you.

What’s the best way to trigger a man’s hero instinct?

Simply by finding ways to make him feel like your hero.

There’s an art to doing this which can be a lot of fun when you know exactly what to do.

But it requires a little more work than just asking him to hold your hand across the road or carry your heavy bags.

James Bauer, the relationship psychologist who first coined this term, gives a terrific introduction to his game-changing concept.

4. He is trying to tell you something

No, not that you have food in your teeth, but he probably wants to let you know he’s interested in getting and holding your attention.

Of course, that’s not what he’s thinking at the time; he’s thinking, “My God, look at her!” but it comes out in a star that won’t quit.

He wants you to know that he’s digging your vibe and you’ll probably be deep in conversation with him SOON – so he can tell you things for real – very soon.