Wait , aren't we rushing things a bit by rushing and getting married for the second time?
People say wedding vows when they get married, but if they get divorced, a while after, they act as if the vows are now void and had no meaning. If you say them from your heart they should have meaning forever. A divorce does not void what was vowed from the heart. Even if you now hate the other persons ways, after you really get to know them As You may know there is a thin line between love and hate.
Love vows were meant to be forever this is why you repeat them after the preacher at your wedding. But you don't just erase them.... if they came from your heart when you get divorced.
Read the following:
Love is not just about romantic love.
Love is a decision( from your heart). It is a choice that you vow to remain together under all conditions, in poverty and wealth, while strong and weak, when healthy and sick which means to protect and enjoy each other without a break. Love means making a commitment to keep going through life's difficulties and triumphs together until death do you part.
Final thoughts
Ask not how many times you should get married. If you believe like some of us do that its only Once then good luck to you! maintaining that first marriage. However there are folks who do get married multiple times. So getting married for the first time can only happen just ONCE.
For example:
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are reportedly heading towards a divorce again! These two are the perfect example of if it didn’t work out the first time why not try it again.
Part of what makes marriages not work is that when two people live their married lives in the public view they are not living as a couple but as celebrities.more than one marriage, means you now can make comparisons, you develop preferences even when you marry the same person twice.
Preferences can play tricks with your emotions. It can confuse a person as to what they really prefer at any giving point in time in their union!
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