Shake a tail feather, to get a clue on her interest in You!

Dancing has a way of getting people out of their minds and into their bodies. Put on some of your favorite music, close your eyes and sway your body to the rhythm. Focusing on the music and allowing the music to penetrate your mind will help to ease tension caused by over thinking. Once the mind is relaxed you will be able to become aware of what your body is doing. Your sexual energy can be awakened through dancing seductively by moving your hips; men and women can benefit from these movements. Dancing solo is great for releasing nervousness, but dancing for your partner can also act as a form of foreplay and intimacy.

Spark you attraction by dancing!

 

When I was in my very early 20(s) I learned that  if a woman would slow dance with you up close and personal.. you had a good chance that she wanted to get close to you by feeling your body close to hers, so if you held her close and she responded you could start whispering your best comments in her ear.

However, if you are not a dancer. and  Can’t tell if she’s into you? Look down below while talking to her: “The legs and feet are one of the last body parts that we consciously control, so they give us invaluable information about what someone is really thinking, their attitudes, and how they feel.

The Center for Nonverbal Studies reports that the way people stand reveals how open they are to new experiences. This is especially true in matters of the heart—or loins: Before we've consciously processed whether we’re attracted to someone or not, our demeanor has changed and our body has already sent out signals giving the green or red light.

So how do you know if she’s giving you the go-ahead? Spot these five signals from her lower half.

Her stance: Feet facing you

What it tells you: We point our feet and legs toward what we like and move away from what we don’t, which means you can tell almost everything from the direction her feet are pointing. So pay attention to whether her toes are toward you, the guy in the next group, or the exit.

Her stance: Legs apart with weight on one foot

What it tells you: This is perhaps the most promising indicator of her overall personality: “This stance is adopted by high achievers worldwide and indicates confidence and openness to new encounters,” . Plus, it’s more likely to be adopted by extroverts. Studies have also shown that because this stance highlights a woman’s hips and waist, it makes her more attractive—a fact she probably knows and is using on purpose: “Women have learned to consciously adopt poses that attract attention and accentuate their assets, which is why you’ll see models adopting this pose of confidence and attractiveness in magazines.

Her stance or her seated position: Legs crossed toward you

What it tells you: “The leg twine is the most common leg position women use to indicate their interest in a guy, when a woman crosses one knee over the other, it shows off her muscle tone and allows her to get closer to you. Slow, purposeful crossing and uncrossing of the legs is a game of peek-a-boo and classic courtship technique used to draw attention to her legs and signal interest.”

Her stance: Pigeon-toed

What it tells you: If her knees and feet are turned in, it’s often a sign she’s introverted, insecure, or closed off both physically and emotionally. But some people are just naturally pigeon-toed, so be sure to look for other clues before jumping to conclusions: If she has limited eye contact and closed body language, like arms crossed and hunched shoulders, it’s pretty safe to assume her turned-in toes are a red flag. 

Her stance: Feet turned at a 45 degree angle

What it tells you: Your stance not only shows who you’re keen on, but also whether you want to invite other people into the conversation. “Standing with both feet directly facing the person they are speaking to suggests that they are fully focused on the conversation. On the other hand, standing with one foot facing the person and the other pointing outward indicates that while she likes what you’re saying, she’s also looking for others to join in. And while this sounds like she does not want alone time with you, it is also a great indicator that she is open, approachable, and excited to interact with you among her or your friends.

Her walking away: On the other hand, if she walks away and looks back at you, this  indicates that  she liked what you were  saying, but she has to go somewhere in a hurry! But this could be act of "I'm going to play hard to get for a little!"  . And while this looks like she does not want any alone time with you, her turning and looking at you and smiling,   is also a great indicator that she is open, and approachable, but NOT  right now. Hurry up, (but don't run after her) and ask for her contact info.... or you may not get another chance!