Surprising Things you might know that Men are Insecure About

Insecurity can be common in women, but did you know that men can also feel insecure? Before you jump to their private parts ...Ladies, we can tell you there are other things that make us men  insecure. Let’s take a look at my BAD list:

• An annoying/embarrassing relative

We all have that one relative we don’t really want to introduce to our special someone, especially right away, or ever. Maybe we have an uncle who is a braggart, a racist grandmother, or an alcoholic aunt. The presence of any of these relatives is enough to make a guy insecure. After all, it took us several years to accept their flaws and we are not  expecting you to do it in just a couple of hours. At the same time men don’t want you to project our family flaws onto us.

• Pubic hair

Most grown men have pubic hair, get over it. Some men do not, from genetics or medical reasons, again, get over it. Shaving the pubic area is unnecessary and can lead to infection, keeping it nicely trimmed is something some men do, and some men do not, it’s a personal decision. Like the man for him, not his downstairs.

• Spare tire

Did you think we do not care about our belly fat? We do, maybe more than you. We Men can be very particular about our abs and our body shape. We all  dream of having 6 pack abs but an inability to get them can make us a bit insecure. Focus on our  good  parts and kindness. with a little encouragement and maybe even coaching we might surprise you and look like this guy in a matter of months. Ok, Maybe not this Young.....  

• Not having enough money

Being weak in the financial area is something that can negatively affect a guy. If you want to go to expensive places on dates and he can’t afford it he may avoid going if he does not like you to pay. Be respectful of his finances. Some men feel that the bank account makes the man, and a man who can’t provide for his family is not worth anything, tell him all the ways he cares for you and your family that don’t require money.

• Grand gestures of love

If you are living in a fantasy world of love like in the movies, get over it. Most men can’t do big things in reality. If you are expecting a man on a white horse you are ultimately going to hurt yourself. Most men are not good at these things and often don’t even think of them.

• Crappy car

Many men are crazy about nice cars, but if they are short on money they may not have a fresh wax or the nicest deluxe model. Let him know your interest lies in the man behind the wheel, not the nicest showroom model. Ok I'm a Black Man Waiting  for the next BMW series.  





Now Ladies...If you don't try to understand these things that may make your guy insecure then maybe it's  time to "Walk away from Love, before Love breaks your heart !"