You’re powerful - is the ultimate compliment?

The Compliment Everyone Loves to Receive (And What That Means About Us)

It’s not “You’re smart.”

It’s not “You’re fascinating.”

It’s not even “You’re amazing.”

"Powerful" is a word that our inner self responds to, because it speaks the deepest truth about who we are.

Becoming empowered is the process of awakening to yourself.

ask yourself – does this person remember how powerful they are?

OK where am I going with this?

 Let me just list a few things that will make you go hmmmm!

1. A man has his act together. (he is powerful) He has goals and they usually include finding the right woman and starting a family. A boy just wants to have fun and considers the words “commitment,” “responsibility” and “ambition” as dirty words. Say them around him and he will run like a bat out of hell.

2. Sure, a real man wants an attractive woman(she is powerful) , but her hotness is not his biggest concern – he wants someone with intelligence, compassion, morals and a desire to improve herself. A boy wants that dime piece that is exciting and wild. He’s in it for the hunt.

3. A man is working toward the future (he is powerful) . He has plans to become financially stable and to be able to provide well for himself and his loved ones. A boy isn't thinking about tomorrow, only what the hottest car is and how he can use it to pick up the ladies.

4. A man is conscious of the man he wants to be and he is willing to work at it (he is powerful). He has values and respect for others. A boy is in it for the moment. He doesn't really consider the consequences of his actions.

5. A man will recognize a good woman when he encounters her and he will be respectful and try to get to know her personally(she is powerful) . A boy will look a lady up and down and is only interested in scoring.

6. A man knows when to invest time and more into a woman( they are both powerful) . He is supportive, while a boy may toss money at a woman, but only for his own personal gain. He’s not investing; he’s testing.

If  both  men and women were aware of their power, would they feel the need to  assert it?