Reasons Why Women Cheat on Their Husbands and Boyfriends

I decide to share something I read. and add my two cents on each point in Italic. 

Currently, it’s still more common for discussions to revolve around men cheating instead of women. However, women who cheat are nearly as numerous as their male counterparts. Both genders usually have different reasons for cheating, and they’re unique to each individual. Take a close look at the top reasons why women cheat as reported by WebMD and Live Science. Psychology and human nature are at play when attraction begins with a new lover.



• New-Partner Chemistry

We have such great chemistry!
hmmm, if you say so!

You may remember that initial sensation that you felt when you met your loved one. Butterflies in your stomach and excitement seems to fill each day as dating begins. However, this new-partner sensation can’t last forever. The relationship will eventually settle down. Some women cheat because this sensation is necessary in their life. They may not want to leave their husband or boyfriend, but they want that electric sensation that occurs when you’re first dating a person.

My perspective on this :  How do you  Develop Great Chemistry with Your new Partner? 

First we need to dispel  the notion that Onstage (TV. movie) chemistry...... It's not real, so in real life it doesn’t just happen with just anyone. You need a solid partnership based on mutual respect, comfort and trust. You want to create that special kind of relationship with your partner. Without it, your relationship suffers both emotionally and physically.

• Boredom With Current Partner
Your relationship may be near its 10-year anniversary, but you’re cheating on him after all of these years. A common cheating reason among women is simply boredom. Their partner may be busy at work, and the love life in the bedroom isn’t what it used to be. Women will seek out another lover in order to quench their boredom while staying committed to their partner.

Everything about this guy is so boring!

My perspective on this :  You don’t need to feel guilty if you’re getting bored with your relationship. You just need to understand why you’re bored and do something about it! Relationships are tricky places to be in. Sometimes, it makes you feel like the happiest person in the world.

And at other times, it spirals you back onto the ground and makes you wonder if you even want to be in one. Do you feel like you’re getting bored with your relationship? You’re not the only person with those thoughts, so you really don’t have to feel guilty about it, even if your lover is head over heels in love with you. Sometimes, these things just happen. But should it come as a surprise to you if you get bored while in love? No.

• Lack of Emotional Support
Cheating often occurs because of emotional-support issues. The woman’s partner may not be comfortable with discussing personal feelings. As a result, the woman feels deprived of any emotional contact. She resorts to cheating in order to quench the emotional deprivation. An affair may not be physical at first either. The woman might have an emotional affair by discussing personal feelings with the other person. These relationships will often escalate into a traditional, physical affair.

Why can't I ever count on YOU!

My perspective on this : Emotional neglect involves failing to provide emotional support that one should provide, given one's relationship to the other. Thus it is thought that a parent emotionally neglects a child when the parent fails to show the child the level of affection or attention that, as a parent, she should (even when she may be providing for the physical needs of the child such as food, health care, clothing, and shelter)
Emotional neglect is also distinct from emotional abuse. Emotional abuse (as distinct from physical abuse) involves abusive commissions, that is, doing things to another that can be emotionally hurtful or traumatizing (for example, name-calling, badgering, or constantly complaining); whereas emotional neglect involves neglectful omissions, that is, omitting to do things that tend to promote emotional well-being. But how does emotional  neglect affect adults... you are not children... well maybe you still are. 

• Revenge Relationships
In some cases, women might feel like they deserve to cheat because they believe or know their partner is guilty of this betrayal.

I'll just post this on my Face Book page
and have him wonder where and when I took this pic
 and who took it. 

These women will actively seek revenge by forming a relationship with another partner. The revenge act is meant to get a rise out of the husband or boyfriend, but it also serves another purpose. It might give the woman a feeling of closure about the betrayal. Now that both people are equal in their affairs, the partners can work on repairing the damage.

My perspective on this : But is it really revenge, when he does care about you or even have any emotions that you have slept with someone other than him ... the mind blowing experience that you had with that guy you never forgot ....Your Sexual  experiences you had  before you shared your bed with him didn't bother him when you told him about these experiences....... So what makes a woman think that men who betray her would ever cared about her so called revenge..... unless he believes that he owns all rights to your body.  

• $exual Addiction

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I'll expose just enough to tease him!
but again who is taking the pic??? 
Just keeping him guessing!

Although it may be rare, some women do have $exual addictions. It doesn’t matter if the issue has been diagnosed or not. These women will struggle with this addiction for the rest of their lives. Similar to an alcoholic relapsing into drinking, it’s possible for women to resort to cheating when they’re addicted to the act itself. It takes a strong partner to work through this cheating scenario.

My perspective on this : This is once again an issue that men seldom deal with because men are usually the ones who are labeled  Sex addicts. When You have a woman who is and sex addict you have a nympho that you might just enjoy for awhile as a man. then you have to become a cougar trainer. If a man is not up to the task then he will have to let her go.   

• Lack of Physical Contact
Women who cheat may also have a craving for physical contact. A husband of 20 years may be busy with work and other interests. He may not be at home, and when he is, the lack of physical contact is palpable for the woman. She responds by looking for comfort in another man’s arms. It’s possible for this affair to be terminated if the partner changes his ways and willingly offers the physical contact.

Now you want to touch me! too little to late!

My perspective on this : <smiling>  Let's face it..... most young women love men who are ambitious in their 20(s), 30(s),  40(s) and beyond... this allows her  to have all the goodies she dreamed about as a little girl. If she is a go-getter herself   then she will most likely be too busy to look for boy toys. If not.... then once again let her go, and find someone who appreciate your hustle... the timeline you set is always on your side..... the next woman will benefit from the work you already put in that the first one did not appreciate enough to hang in there with you.  


• Unhappy With Overall Relationship
Studies have also shown that women cheat when they’re just overwhelmed with an unhappy relationship. This vague description can include a combination of issues, such as verbal fights, miscommunication, rude comments, lack of respect and poor parenting. A woman might feel obliged to remain in the relationship because of family commitments, but she still seeks pleasure in secret ways. This reason for cheating is one of the most commonly cited on psychological evaluations.
My perspective on this : Okayyyy. this is  just a incompatible couple... I have no more  to say on this one.  

• The Primitive Side to Cheating

These experiences never seem to satisfy me!
 It's "4 am" and have to go home. 

Scientists suggest that there might be an evolutionary reason for cheating. Men may try to diversify their progeny by cheating, but women might look for other mates to support them if their original partner doesn’t fit the bill. Women may have children with multiple men in order to have strong genetics in their background. This primitive side might encourage women at a biological level to cheat too.
Everyone reacts to cheating in different ways after the act occurs. A woman might cheat once and hide it away in her mind. Alternatively, she may continue the affair without any guilt. Some women confess their actions to their loved one. Regardless of the outcome, cheating ultimately hurts both parties in a relationship. Before temptation gets the best of you, consider your loved one’s feelings and what can happen to the relationship in the future.

My perspective on this :  Once again.. this is too deep for that  bucket with a rope to reach the depth of this well. Men go to multiple  wells, go to get a dip or two..... But women who feel the need to sample multiple experiences  are more like the men they hate.. which kind of  makes this one of those situations that the average/normal  person can not figure out.  

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