Not all successful women are Alpha women, some are Beta!

While Alpha titles standout Beta female are great in their own right.

I don't need to be an Alpha
 to be great!

Female Labels come and go, they are trendy for a period of time then they are labels of the past generations. As women become more assertive in their quest to make their mark...mainly in the business world They are force to behave in the manner that is necessary to succeed... Some would label that "Alpha female " behavior.... I will differ because acting like an asertive person can very well be just an act of following a script... But once she gets home and kicks off her shoes and lets her hair down the scene changes as does her behaviour. At that moment the beta female emerges... One who is the same person she was before graduation with her MBA. That person is who many wonder about. Did the need to succeed harden her or is it a temporary act to overcome the stereotype label women get... Of a temporary occupant of a corporate seat at the round boardroom table... Where tough decission are made daily. And no crying is allowed. However the thing that many beta women want is Alpha success and still a Beta homelife.... At least so I was told by a few ladies I had a conversation with on the topic... They want success in business world until the need for a baby carriage arises. Here is where the true Alpha women make tough choices her career or her maternal purpose... Yes, you can be both the BOSS and Chief. Homemaker like Michelle Obama... However Mrs Obama made great sacrifies so that her husbands career could hit the jackpot. Not her career.. Which was put on hold. His career needed her support, without her carrying the load of their family life he might not have become President...please note: .She didnt run for first lady, that title was awarded to her when her soulmate became president... And she then had a platform on which she could really have an impact on women feeling they too could have it all. Oooh but Ladies name two men you know who have president Obama's Skillset. Or how many career women would have given up their careers to become first lady?? I would bet not many names come to mind. Some might think of a few unproven individuals but none, I'm sure, are in your circle of friends, associates and colleagues. They have yet to grt there .. You would be so very surprised if they did, because there is not much room at the top...if there were it would be shaped differently. The slight contrast between Alpha and Beta women is that Beta women compromise more... They are willing to take a seat at the boardroom table and skillfully debate with the best, but are also willing to sit out being in the star line up. Michelle Obama is a perfect example of who I just described ... For more info on her willingness to be the support roll player you can read barack Obama (Best seller)

the Audacity of hope.. Chapter 9 ... "Family". True Alpha men and women are never willing to sit out an opportunity to shine, they grab the chance to be the star.... They are not support roll material.

I wish I had someone at home
 to call me "Mommy."