It May Not Be Time To Give Up On Your Relationship Just Yet

Do you honestly think
 we should keep trying?

The old cliche that "home is where the Heart is " kicks me as a Karate side kick to the chest an knocking a broad down.... because My heart is in my chess/body and at times my body is not where it should be physically . So how do I begin to make my body go where my heart feels at home, especially when you are conflicted?

Being in a relationship with a person who gives you the same amount of love you provide to them is the best feeling in the world. Humans are social beings that need love which will give them the strength to move forward in life. This feeling makes us want to become better people every day. However, being in a unhappy relationship can have devastating effect on your entire life making you feel like there is no reason to wake up in the morning.

A healthy and strong relationship involves partners who are willing to open themselves to each other. This is the true point of love and regardless of the risk of getting your heart broken, you are willing to take that chance. If you are not sure whether your partner and your relationship are worth the effort, it is important to evaluate how much you give from yourself and how much your partner is involved. These are significant  signs that will help you figure out if your relationship has a future.

Both of you don’t want to call it quits

If both you and your partner are willing to work hard on making your relationship work, it is an excellent sign that you have a good future together where you will try to overcome any difficulty as a couple.

You have unfinished business

If you can’t stand something your partner does or if you feel your relationship has become stagnant, it does not mean it is over and you should give up. First try to talk with your partner openly about the things you are not happy about and if they are willing to work on it you might end up happier.

A new problem is ruining everything

If the reason for your unhappiness is a recent problem, it doesn’t mean it will destroy everything you have already worked on. It may be difficult to overcome, but in the end you will get out stronger than ever. Never avoid your partner during challenging times because relationships are not always about happiness.

They're genuinely trying to improve them-self

If they are making an effort to get rid of  bad habits that make you upset, they definitely want your relationship to work out. Be patient, change is a long process and everyone deserves a second chance.

Your surroundings are making you doubt your relationship

If you feel like most of your troubles are caused by outside factors, try to avoid thinking about them and don’t let them become a part of your relationship. Don’t let other people stand between you. You are the person who knows what is the best for you and others will never know how you feel and will never see things from your perspective.

Don’t give up until you have got all the facts straight

If you have heard rumor that they might be cheating on you but you are not sure, or if your friends tell you they are not good for you, instead of jumping to conclusion try to thing about the facts thoroughly. Evaluate the problem first and then make a decision without rushing into anything.

It’s just one honest mistake

We all make mistakes and you should never crucify your partner about a small insignificant mishap. You might do the same thing in the future and you will want support and understanding from your partner.

Some problems can be fixed

We often encounter serious issues in a relationship that can’t be resolved and fixed easily. They might require a lot of time and effort and it is extremely important to sit down and discuss that problem with your partner.

That look says this side-Kick is coming right to the chest
 so back up and regroup, or you heart will pay a serious price. 
Resulting heartbreak 

You’re afraid you’ll be heartbroken

Being afraid to love just because of the fear of being heartbroken is stupid. Many people will prefer to be alone than risk getting hurt. However, this fear should not stop you from falling in love and working on your relationship. Not all  estranged spouses are interested in hurting their partner. Try to relax, and enjoy your happiness for as long as you can.


Final thought

Try and remember why you were attracted to each other, in the first place, and got together because of it.  If those reasons are still relevant then their is still hope...you can find as many reasons possible to move forward if you just "keep hope alive!"
The point that many miss.... is that the feeling of entitlement becomes the biggest problem... in relationship... when one is granted privileges then they feel entitled, when these privileges are suddenly remove, then entitlement issues raises it's "ugly head." Teamwork is power. the strength that both members bring to the teamwork,  is needed to succeed. Focus on result not on who is doing what! Servant-leadership in the "mission" is most important!