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Too busy to give you time
Giving time is something not many people deserve. However, in a relationship it is a way to show you appreciate your partner and that you love them. If you partner is too busy to spare a few hours just for you it means they have lost interest in you. When they avoid spending time with you and they would rather spend time with a friend than you, it is an alarming sign that your relationship is approaching the end.
Being indecisive
When they are not sure what they want from the relationship they probably are not that into you anymore. If you want to end it they suddenly want to be with you, and if you are trying to make things better, they are not interested. Don’t allow your partner to take advantage of you and confront them about it. In every relationship there are situations when you doubt your partner’s feelings, however if they are always indecisive it is a sign you need to stop wasting time.
They want to be the focus of all the attention
Every person has their own desires and wishes, however if your partner always puts their own wishes in front of yours they don’t care for you enough. This is a sign that your happiness does not mean anything to your partner. Once they stop caring, walk away because they will never bother again.
Blaming you
Regardless of who is to blame, your partner will always blame you even for the smallest things. If they are not open for discussion and prepared to admit mistakes your relationship is no longer healthy. Also, if your partner just walks away in the middle of an argument without even bothering to work things out, they don’t care for your future together.
Treating you arrogantly
You should never treat someone like they are below you no matter which person it is. If your partner treats you this way, it is a sign they don’t care about your feelings and whether you will get hurt. A healthy relationship involves partners that will provide each other a sense of security and stability. If there is a lack of this kind of understanding, the spark between you is probably long gone.
Being disrespectful
If your partner does not appreciate the things that make you happy and that are valuable for you they don’t love you. Also, disrespecting you or the things you have accomplished means they will never be able to treat you the way you deserve.
Being non-supportive
Being with a partner that is not supportive can be very unhealthy. Support is the key for a relationship to grow. Lack of support in any aspect of life is a sign your partner no longer cares for you or your relationship. Being supportive does not just mean you will say the same things, instead it is much deeper force that pushes you to become a better person.
Treating you like an outsider
If you are in a long relationship and your partner avoids meeting you with their parents, siblings or close friends, it means they are not taking your love seriously. This can make you feel like an outsider and the last on their list of priorities, which is a clear sign your partner does not have interest in your relationship.
Making you feel worthless
Everyone needs to hear they are doing okay at least from time to time. If your partner never praises your achievements and they only want to fight, it means they don’t care whether your relationship will end.
Their apologies don’t mean anything
Saying sorry means nothing without meaning it. If your partner repeats the same things over and over again, just saying they are sorry will never change the way they make you feel. A person like this can make you lose your will to fight for your future.
Final thoughts:
No matter all of the above... the relationship started off on the wrong footing... things don't just turn 180 degrees. the basic foundation was not in place to keep the relationship interesting. the chemistry was not right to begin with. Think about that next time.
If it's real "Love will find a way!"
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