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The Brutally Honest Difference Between Loving someone.
Love is a complex, beautiful and wonderful feeling. It’s perhaps the most indescribable and most profound emotions we experience; but do you know the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone? Here are some examples to help you differentiate between the two.
You might think loving someone and being in love with someone is the same, but they aren’t. What makes them different? Your intentions.
You choose to love someone; when you’re in love, it’s not a choice. When you love someone, you have a choice to be with them. If the relationship doesn’t work out, you can both walk away. If you’re in love, and still you walk away, you’ll always feel the same about this person because you’ve fallen in love with them.
When you love someone, you want what’s best for them; being in love with them means you put their needs and desires before your own. Being in love means making personal sacrifices so they might reach their goals. Could you step aside and let them come first? Would you do more to help them reach their full potential? This could mean doing more around your home, easing their burden and stress so they can keep working toward their goal.
Love can end; being in love never does. Need an example? Statistics show over half the marriages in the United States end in divorce. This means the couple wasn’t in love. They just loved each other when they decided to marry. If a couple is in love, they’ll work past their differences, resolve their disagreements and work together because they can’t imagine living without each other.
Loving someone means you always need them. If you’re in love, you recognize your lives need a balance. It’s great to spend time together, but being in love means you both should be happy. You need your hobbies and things you do without that person.
Loving someone takes work; being in love is effortless. Yes, being in love has its challenges, but when all is said and done, your life together isn’t a struggle.
Loving can sometimes feel like a rush while being in love is filled with many emotions. It has its highs and lows like a roller-coaster. If you love someone, the ride ends; but being in love, throughout everything, you and your partner vow to find a way to figure everything out.
Loving someone is looking at how they make you feel. Being in love is how you make them feel. With this one, you could say that being in love means you’re unselfish because you’re concerned with your partner’s feeling.
Loving means ownership?? being in love is an equal partnership. loving someone means you show them off to the whole world. being in love means you don’t label them as your boyfriend or girlfriend. This doesn’t mean you don’t acknowledge you’re an item, but you also recognize the two of you are both your own people.
The differences are not always visual... you need to apply ingredients that blend well together.... make it tasty and add spice to your lives together. A creative mind can't be an attractive quality (at times) to opposites...... they can find harmony. If both individuals know that Love grows. it just needs to be stimulated for long term..in contrast to short term relationship... folks mindset of dissatisfaction that become obvious when both individuals are still looking for perfection in the other person. Whether you are married or dating you don't own your partner.
I've loved a few women in my life... so I think I understand the difference.... simply because I remember my experiences... which I've shared with each of these women was different.....none was ever the same as the others. Love is not just love for someone special, when you are in love the feelings are always special for that someone, making them special to you!
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