Are you Dancing on the Edge of the Roof in your Relationships?

                                                       Is this even safe? Probably not!

Sometimes I feel like his whore! 

But that is the role of the side-chick, right?

FYI, Ladies!
Men rarely say "I'm sorry "because on Mars it means you have done something wrong and you need to apologize. Women, however, say "I'm sorry" as a way to say " I care about what you are feeling." It doesn't mean they are apologizing for doing something wrong. The men who understand this who rarely say "I'm sorry" can do wonders by learning to use this aspect of the Venusian language, effectively. The easiest way to derail a disagreement is to say "I'm sorry" quickly.. before it escalates into an argument. Most arguments escalate when a man begins to invalidate a woman's feelings and she responds to him disapprovingly. Being a man, I've had to learn to practice validating women's feeling all the time, not some of the times. My now ex(s) practiced expressing their feelings more directly without disapproving of me. the result was fewer fights and more love. Without having new awareness we probably...... would have the same arguments over and over.
I had become the master of avoiding unnecessary arguments.
So maybe a guy can go from being " the World's Worst Boyfriend" to becoming the "World's best husband......to someone else."

As men, one of our duties is to be gentlemanly to everyone we encounter. There is perhaps no person that this pertains to more – and to a higher degree – than your partner. Women expect to be courted by, and potentially married to, a man of high character. Most people would agree that good men encompass certain behavioral traits throughout the duration of a relationship.  This leads to the next question: what character traits make up a “good man”? Well, there are indeed many of them. I’ve managed to narrow the “signs” of a good man down to 11.

IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER, HERE ARE SOME SIGNS THAT YOU’RE WITH A GOOD MAN WHO MAY HAVE BEEN A BAD MAN WITH SOMEONE ELSE.

• As his partner/lover, a good man won’t forget about making you feel especially beautiful. A good man is not content with just saying the words but is successful in manifesting feelings of beauty within a woman's heart. This includes the way he interacts with her physically and mentally.

In sharp contrast. the man that does not make a woman feel Amazing, or Beautiful. should be classified as self-serving and self-observed...and will never ever treat a woman right.

• A good man will always possess a strong and unshakable character. As such, by default, the man is inspirational in his words and deeds. He never ceases to evoke feelings of inspiration. A good man will inspire a woman to be the best version of herself.

In sharp contrast. a Thug has no redeeming good qualities, he might call himself a character but it is a cartoon character you should get away and stay away from. He is the Tasmanian Devil.

• A good man understands the importance of remaining supportive and accommodating to a woman’s needs. This doesn’t entail being a “Yes Man,” but being a man that can offer support and accommodation when the situation calls for such.

In sharp contrast. the guy who never ever supports his lover.... is a never going to change his ways. So don't expect it.

• A good man never really gives himself too much credit. Though he may be intelligent, a good man seeks to always self-improvement; whether this is through learning something new, taking on added responsibilities, or getting into better shape, a good man prides himself on becoming better.

In sharp contrast. a narcissist talks about himself none stop they feel they are the greatest gift to women.

• Feeling safe and secure is a vital component for any woman in her relationship. It is the man’s duty to ensure that such feelings are present. In the event of something unfortunate, a good man will always stand up for and defend his woman.

In sharp contrast. There are guys who start out making a woman feel afraid from day one or shortly thereafter.

• Holding the door open, pulling out the chair, feeding the kids, etc. are all trademark actions of a good man doing the little things. He is never too busy to stop what he’s doing and offer a small gesture of assistance.

In sharp contrast. the guy who sees no need to be gentleman will not suddenly act like one... if he does it then he is faking it.

• A good man will not lie, cheat, or steal, especially to the person he loves the most in the world. A good man should not feel any hesitation in telling it like it is, whether what he has to say be good or bad.

In sharp contrast. when women know what they are worth. They will see guys, who are cheaters, and lie within a short period of time of the start of the new relationship.

• A good man will never be physical, mentally, or emotionally abusive to his partner. Ever. Also, a good man will not instigate an abusive episode with anyone else under any circumstance. Instead, a good man will use the strength of his character and intellect to resolve conflicts.

In sharp contrast: There are so many men who don't respect women, just look at the news these days, Senators, President, judges and so many other Corporate CEO types.

• When a good man expresses his love, this love remains through thick and thin. Under no circumstance will a good man neglect you, even in the more challenging situations. A good man will not abandon his duty to stand by you.

In sharp contrast. Some will say "I love you" but many will say it just to get women to comply with their wishes.

• A good man understands that trust, like love, cannot be forced; it must be earned. After earning the woman’s sacred trust, a good man will take such a blessing for granted. Furthermore, a good man never leaves his trust in-doubt.

In sharp contrast. Maybe they can..... fake it..... you will be deceived for a short while. Women who have had fake people in their lives should be able to identify, and they should wake up in time.

• This doesn’t mean that he keels over and appeases to a woman’s every whim. It does mean, in most cases, that a good man will be selfless in his words and deeds. It is a man’s responsibility to put his woman first – a good man does this much more often than not.

In sharp contrast. the guys who are selfish will never even give any women control of their own lives.... let alone their lives, and will always demand that they comes first.

Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one! – Marcus Aurelius

If you don't have it good "You have it BAD"

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