9/17/2018

So why do some men remain single, until his later years?

I wrote a blog post not too long ago about  "Nice Girls Always Finish Single!"
Which got me thinking as an FB friend posted the following pic. While she meant it as a joke my thoughts are as follows:
There are at least more than just a few things that many men find themselves irresistible in a woman.
I believe very strongly that it's obvious what men do not find attractive, but what makes us crazy? All men want to find a woman who has the next irresistible qualities.

Calmness. For the most part, drama queens are usually women. And dating a drama Queen means lots of gossip, impulsive decisions, emotional conversation and drama in her life all the time.
Men prefer a woman who can stay calm and relaxed.

Cleanliness.  My good friend of many years once went out with an extremely attractive girl. They only went out once, and then he completely lost interest. I asked him what happened, and he told me. " Beauty is more than make-up and fancy haircut. Men find women more attractive when they are neat and clean. Men find women who smell nice, who have clean hair and hydrated skin more attractive than a face perfectly covered in makeup.

Intelligence. I can not date someone who does not even know the name of the person in power of the country where they live. it might sound extreme, but it's not. An intelligent woman shows ambition, awareness and personally knows the value of education

Caring. Instinctively, men and women are attracted to people who could potentially look out for them if something were to happen in the future. Most women are born with that instinct already but few show it. These days. out of fear that they will be taken advantage of.

Creativity. In some cases, creativity isn't a woman's natural abilities to make crafts and recreate Pinterest projects. Rather, her ability to approach life in a new and exciting way is the type of creativity men are looking for. A man wants a wife who can help him figure out unique solutions to life's problems.

Discipline. Parenting is already a difficult job, but it's made even harder with a lack of discipline. When men are looking for a woman who will uphold the household's rules and help reinforce their children's good behaviors.

Loyalty. No human being on Earth wants to be betrayed. When a man meets a woman, he looks at the way she acts and respects the people she loves. If she speaks poorly about her friends or tells them she is sick so she can spend time with her man instead of going out with him in public all of the time. he may not believe she is a good match for him when she shows off your relationship on FB is not what we want unless you are Halle Berry. Ooh, wait all of her relationships bombed!

Friendliness. If you ask a man why he loves his wife, he might say how she makes friends with everyone or how she treats everyone with respect and kindness. Nothing is more seductive than humility to treat everyone with the same level of respect.

Genuine. In today's World, it's easy to put up our picture perfect life on social media, but a real man is looking for a woman who is genuine. It's a difficult quality to find but is extremely attractive once discovered. 
The rays of Maturity shine down early on little girls.
Much earlier than on boys
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Maturity.  Maturity has nothing to do with the age of a person. Mental and emotional maturity is a quality all men are looking for because no one has time to date childish woman.

Optimism. Nothing is sexier than a person with the ability to see the glass half-full, instead of half-empty.

Punctuality. Nobody likes to wait around. Most men understand that most women take more time to get ready, but a woman who is punctual shows she respects everyone else's time.

The ability to let go. It's good to fight for what you want in life, but wisdom lies in our ability to know when it's time to let go of what we can not have.

Romantic. It makes sense that both men and women are looking for a partner who is at least a little romantic. It's nice to feel like that spark will always be there because your partner is someone who likes to bring flowers home and plans romantic getaways.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T-F-U-L.  Respect for a man and for others is a characteristic that all men find attractive.

Compassionate. It's easy to fall into the habit of always wanting or demanding more. When concentrating on our own needs, we forget to understand others. A compassionate woman is someone all men are looking for.

Loving. No one want's to be in a relationship where they don't feel loved.






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