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If you're in a relationship, and things haven't been working lately, you may start to see signs that you're growing apart. You might notice that you're slightly less excited to see each other. Or that you've been spending less time together. It can be an unnerving phase of a relationship, and you might even worry that you're heading for a breakup. But the situation can improve if you know what to do — and what not to do.
big difference in bringing you closer together. In the same vein, you might want to up your game.
Don't make other distracting things your top priority list.
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The first step? Don't assume the worst. It's normal to go through periods of drifting apart from each other. The most important part is that you notice it, take steps to course correct, and come back to each other.
This is something all couples have to do since it takes work to maintain a healthy relationship.
But it's even more crucial for partners who seem to be drifting apart.
If you can both make a few changes, and put some effort into reconnecting a little bit each day,
your relationship has a chance of getting back on track. But, during the process,
you'll also want to avoid certain bad habits, since they might make getting closer difficult.
When things are rocky, you might not, for example, want to blame each other for the disconnect you've
been experiencing, since doing so can drive a wedge further between you.
With that in mind, here are a few things you should do, as well as a few things you shouldn't do,
if it feels like you're drifting apart, according to experts.
While you don't want to have a super serious, heavy conversation every single day,
you should find time to reconnect and chat about how you've both feelings.
Is your partner noticing the disconnect, too?
If so, discuss what you're both willing to do to make things feel better.
"It may not work with only one of you at the helm, He says you'll both want to be on board to make
changes, if this is going to work.
Spend More Quality Time Together
Once the honeymoon phase of your relationship is over, you might have to put in a bit more effort to keep that spark alive. And that's totally OK. Commit to carving out at least 15 minutes a day to really communicate and connect with your partner. You might want to snuggle up to watch a movie. Or make dinner together. Or kiss more often.
All of these things will make it a game when it comes to showing the love.
Go out of your way to do something unexpected and nice for your partner,
Plan a romantic evening, leave love notes, send flowers just to say 'I love you.'
Or whatever else your partner might like. If you can remind your [significant other] how much you care,
it can help bring you back together.
Final thoughts
Your partner is there to support you, and you should feel comfortable venting in front of each other.
But if you're drifting apart, it may be smart to pump the brakes on the complaining sessions,
and instead, try to keep things light and fun for a while. and listen to what your partner has to say.
Don't Complain 24/7
Don't Argue Constantly Or Put Each Other down.
Don't Blame Each Other.
Don't Ignore the Elephant In The Room.
This is something all couples have to do since it takes work to maintain a healthy relationship.
But it's even more crucial for partners who seem to be drifting apart.
If you can both make a few changes, and put some effort into reconnecting a little bit each day,
your relationship has a chance of getting back on track. But, during the process,
you'll also want to avoid certain bad habits, since they might make getting closer difficult.
When things are rocky, you might not, for example, want to blame each other for the disconnect you've
been experiencing, since doing so can drive a wedge further between you.
With that in mind, here are a few things you should do, as well as a few things you shouldn't do,
if it feels like you're drifting apart, according to experts.
While you don't want to have a super serious, heavy conversation every single day,
you should find time to reconnect and chat about how you've both feelings.
Is your partner noticing the disconnect, too?
If so, discuss what you're both willing to do to make things feel better.
"It may not work with only one of you at the helm, He says you'll both want to be on board to make
changes, if this is going to work.
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Spend More Quality Time Together
Once the honeymoon phase of your relationship is over, you might have to put in a bit more effort to keep that spark alive. And that's totally OK. Commit to carving out at least 15 minutes a day to really communicate and connect with your partner. You might want to snuggle up to watch a movie. Or make dinner together. Or kiss more often.
All of these things will make it a game when it comes to showing the love.
Go out of your way to do something unexpected and nice for your partner,
Plan a romantic evening, leave love notes, send flowers just to say 'I love you.'
it can help bring you back together.
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Final thoughts
Your partner is there to support you, and you should feel comfortable venting in front of each other.
But if you're drifting apart, it may be smart to pump the brakes on the complaining sessions,
and instead, try to keep things light and fun for a while. and listen to what your partner has to say.
Don't Complain 24/7
Don't Argue Constantly Or Put Each Other down.
Don't Blame Each Other.
Don't Ignore the Elephant In The Room.
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