Some Signs that speak volumes that it’s Time To End Your Relationship.

I'm a confident woman so why am I stuck in a rut!

So when does RESENTMENT turn into something stronger?
Most of the time it's happening and we are not paying attention. Folks often ignore the signs until something cause them to over-react not because of the current incident but of the build-up of resentments of a period of time.

Being in an unhealthy relationship that makes you feel sad more often than happy,
is never worth it. No matter how hard you want the things to be different,
some things just aren’t meant to be.
Instead of investing yourself into something without any future, it is much better to move on with your life and try to find someone who will complete you. These are the signs that can help you determine whether you have reached a dead-end in your relationship.

1. You have a different vision of the future

If you don’t have even slight similarities about your future together,

you can never expect things to work out for you in the long run.

As a couple, your dreams and goals should be similar,
and if they are completely different, there is no point in trying anymore.

2. You are not happy

Being in a relationship means being with a person who enhances your happiness. Relationships are sometimes difficult, but if you feel miserable most of the time, it may be time to walk away.

3. You are preoccupied with insecurities

The future is always uncertain, and if you are not sure whether your love and strengths in your relationship are strong enough from overcoming difficultiesyour future together is not that bright.

4. There is nothing you are grateful for

If you need a lot of time to think about the things you like

about your partner, it means your relationship is not something you are grateful for.

5. You hope things will improve

Having empty homes without moving forward only

extends the deadline, and it is probably better if you end it

now instead of torturing yourself and your partner.

6. You argue very often

Arguments are a normal part of every relationship, however

if you spend more time arguing than showing each other

affection, you are very likely to end things because of that pressure.

7. You are always crying

If you feel so miserable that you spend a lot of time crying,

your relationship has already ended. However, instead of

hurting yourself, talk with your partner about moving on.

8. Toxicity affects most of your life

A toxic relationship can have a big influence on every aspect

of your life and it can harm your health. Once this happens,

it is better to end the relationship before you

suffer great consequences.

9. You avoid spending time with each other

When you live with your partner you usually spend

most of your time together. But if you are not looking

forward to that time anymore, it is probably better to

reconsider your choices.

10. You are flirting with other people

Flirting is usually harmless but of both you and

your partner do it, it is probably a sign you want

something different. Constant flirting means you are

not faithful to each other so instead of ruining your lives,

try to end things before it is too late.

11. You don’t trust each other

Trust is the foundation of every healthy relationship.

However, if you can’t rely on your partner you can never

expect a bright future with them.

12. You lie to yourself about your relationship

Sometimes it is difficult to accept even the most obvious facts.

But, denial will never help you and instead of lying to yourself,

try to gather the courage to end the unhealthy mess you are

in instead of wasting  any more of your time.

Final thoughts

Many of us are creatures of habit. We like to stay in our

comfort zones, however when it is not longer a comfortable nest.

Then it’s time to flee the coop….. Separation can help you decide

what’s best for you in the long run…. Don’t hesitate to flee and

don’t be too hasty to make the flight permanent… as the saying goes

“out of sight out of  mind” or is it the other one… something about

absence makes (silly) heart grow fonder!

How do I breathe