10/13/2018

Touching often, does not mean you are being clingy

And it does not mean overly possessive behavior, either.
Your simple touch just makes my day, don't ever stop!

So how often do you and your partner touch, outside of having sex?
If you sort of slidder around each other in the kitchen, or sit far apart on the couch,
it may help to get a little closer. I encourage couples to touch as they talk,
Human beings are wired to connect and touching is a big part of that.
By simply making an effort to touch again (because I'm sure you did at
the beginning of your relationship) you're pretty much guaranteed to feel closer
If you live together and you're both in the habit of rushing out the door each morning
and ignoring each other when you get home, now's the time to make a change.
Greet each other (and say goodbye) with a hug and a kiss.
It's an easy way to start prioritizing the relationship again.
And if you don't live together, shoot a "good morning" and "goodnight" text their way.
It may sound so simple, but it really is the easiest way to feel more like a couple,
and less like roommates.

To change the negative mood in the room,
make an effort to remember why you got together in the first place.
Pull out the photos or the falling-in-love texts and spend some time with them,
Or write about something wonderful you did together.
It really can help to shift the mood to ones that are positive again.
Right now, one of your main focuses should be repairing your relationship —
not necessarily going out with friends, or giving attention to somebody else.
It takes time to reverse drift,
Give your relationship the time and attention you’d give a brand new relationship.
And things should start to feel better.
Now is not the time to point out all each other's flaws, or pick little fights.
Even if your partner does things that drive you crazy, resist the temptation to complain or
argue with them,
It's certainly not up to you to fix things all on your own but focusing now and reconnecting and keeping things light and fun. And arguing has no place in that.
If the mood has been weird between the two of you, you might be tempted to blame each
other or argue about whose fault it is. But try to focus on the positives.
At the end who started drifting away first, or who caused who to drift away is useless arguments.
If you both want the relationship, focus on solutions.
If your partner is doing something that indicates they're drifting away —
like, maybe they are sulking off to another room when usually you'd be hanging out
say something about it. If you and your partner are drifting apart,
ignoring the problem and hoping it will go away will not only make the situation worse,
at some point down the road, things may blow up into an argument,
which could also increase your problems and speed up the termination of your relationship.
Speak up! Let your partner know you'd like to reconnect and put more effort into making
things as they once were. If you'd both like to feel closer, it certainly is possible.

Final thought.
The art of touching someone in more ways than one can be magical it can lead to who knows where.
Oooh please don't touch me that way again
Oooh please don't touch me that way
Oooh please don't touch me
Oooh please don't touch
Oooh please don't 
Oooh, please
Oooh!
I could not resist anymore after few seconds of that amazing sensation


Back at one!




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