All things have a Timeline and an expiration date

Please permit me, to explain what I’m writing about here. We as all people have a timeline in every aspect of our lives. There is a time to be born, a time to live and grow and a time to die. We all know this but often enough we just spend our time just living for day to day hoping for tomorrow until tomorrow becomes the expiration date. As I have had a few friends and family die one after the other over the past few months, and even years. I found myself thinking about the things I would of should have said to some of them when I had a chance “Don’t worry be happy!” was a popular song a few decades ago. It struck a cord that made people joyful. The song would play on the radio and almost everybody would sing along. Except for the folks who really felt they had no reason what so ever to be happy about. Most of us fall in the category of sometimes happy, sometimes not so happy and maybe sometimes sad and worst cases sometimes depressed. We live each day as if we have time in the future that will go on and on. But Not really… thinking that the things we put off until tomorrow might never happen, should wake us up, about how much time we have left . Out of fear we just hope that the stars will magically align just right so that tomorrow will be the happiest day of our lives. Well, tomorrow is right now. Not where you are maybe but right now in another time zone somewhere on the digital clock of someone else across the oceans. It’s already tomorrow in China, it will be tomorrow in Australia later, New Zealand, etc. I'm fortunate to have crossed the International Dateline, I learned the importance of understanding time, you don’t magically look at your watch and see the correct time in the relevant region you are flying over. You have to reset it or in the case of your cellphone or laptop, it will reset based on your location and the cell tower it pings against. Which means things have changed relative to your location. Relativity of time waits for no man or woman. Time is fluent in term of our realities.
If you are being kind to someone you have much to give that they will be thankful for

Breakfast is the most important meal of the day, let's start you off right! 

So why do we put things off until tomorrow in the cases of our relationships… Now you know where I’m going with this. Guys who are hunters, go after the woman they believe could make them happy for a period of time, let's not kid ourselves that too has an expiration date.     He chases her until she catches him <smirking> and he is happy to lift her higher and higher until he can’t do it anymore. Maybe his resources have suddenly hit that a brick wall, his strengths are no longer relevant in the current World. Women also have the same problems they have a biological clock that allows them to look around them and think, he is the one I have to give my time to (investment) we can have a baby or two or more. But that is also defendant on a few factors. Because it does not always happen the way you think, it will.  He may have other plans.

We must understand that time waits for no one. If you think you have time on your side you might be surprised that someone else might think about hooking up with the person you also thought you should have to fix your breakfast for first thing the morning.
OK I have said a mouthful, here. Guys expect their women to fix them breakfast, but those guys fail to understand that roles have changed over the last few decades. And some have even reversed.
So the guy, who is an early riser, might think it's smart to do for you what other guys expect you to do for them.

Ladies to be included in his future plans, and he included in your future plans takes synergy between the two of you.