B&B, Business arrangement, with Benefits

We men don’t often know why we are so very attracted to a particular type of woman. But when that woman comes into our lives with the full package… then we know exactly why we are attracted to her ----

B&B  Brains and Beauty are a lethal combination in my book.  But women may not always know who they want,  as women are taking command of situation more often they can stumble  

"the guys she wants....maybe isn't the guy she needs!" 

I hope no other eligible woman is wearing 

a red dress this evening at the happy hour!

Please place your business card in one of these boxes, and see if you can win a date,

 with someone of the opposite sex. There will be a raffle at the end of the evening!

Will I be a standout at this happy hour?

Wow, I have competition here,    I Will so not standout tonight!

“Let me call him, and see if he is available

to have a drink and then service my needs” 

Educated  Women Would Rather Be Alone Than Spend Their Time with A$$holes.

So why do we see her  as so special? Maybe because we men can go caveman in a matter of seconds when we get a bit jealous, when another man is eyeing the same woman, who fits our perception as the perfect woman.  Gone are the days when men had “gentlemen’s clubs” to go to just to relax with a stiff drink and a cigar after a long busy week and decide  which member of “the Bunnies clubs,” we liked. “The playboy clubs”  are very few now a days, as a matter of fact there are hardly any in the cities I have visited in the last few years. 

  

I’m not writing this to sound like a caveman from back in the day. The new age of women are slowly  transforming us men into thinking more liberally, well some of us men have learned to prefer smart intelligent women which classifies them as  Beauty & Brains, well  I have reversed the order here on purpose of visual imaging. Because we still have to see her beauty first to want to engage her into a conversation, to learn that she is also smart.  Maybe even smarter than anyone else we have talked to, of the opposite sex, since college. This is the new age World, a new reality we are now living in, where women are putting their high heels  on, and maybe even a red dress after work and stepping into a happy hour setting. Well you might not see her coming, unless you are at the right spot. So where are these right spots these days? You better start the search or you will miss out  on meeting these types of women. 

Bartender Sangria made especially for these ladies!

These Hot spots are designed to attract women who fit the Brains & Beauty classification. Men who know about these spots are in heaven. Those who do not are still hanging out at sports bars, hoping to get lucking with a waitress or those very few attractive women, too many men are also eyeing. 

These Brains & Beauty are Women, who are making their own way in life, so they roll out not needing a man on their arm to pay the tab. You might even see a woman you thought was unavailable, out and about  roaming in one of these HOT spots. 

   

Maybe a library would be a  better place to meet this kind of B&B but the library is not a great meeting place! Wine is not served. She might need a buzz to loosen her up a bit.

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She reads,  therefore she is gaining knowledge that she can share,
but she does enjoy a glass of red wine, after work .

So how does a business minded man go from a long week of making deals  to meeting a woman he can establish a Business arrangement, and Benefits, with? 

Let’s think in terms of Business arrangements, with Benefits which  is different than Friends with Benefits. You become business associates, and the benefits become part of your connection. She services your needs, and you service her needs. each individual standing on their Own. Neither propping the other up.

These kinds of women who occupies a corner office, in the Corporate World, is just what the doctor ordered for us guys, who may want to be able have a B&B relationship. 

There used to be just a few of these types of ladies, years ago, so picking was very slim,  but now these women are out numbering men in great numbers. This is a direct result of higher numbers of graduations of professional women. There are many  advantages to engaging, these types of professional women, in conversations….unless a man is intimidated by their success. Think about meeting a smart woman who might be able to give you advice on things that you would not have expected to receive advice on. Once a guy can have dinner or lunch with a woman of this caliber, no one else will meet his needs. The combination of Beauty and Brains is now a major asset. But the following might be a  problem, for many of these women, I read this article, and thought Wow. 

  

“I believe in educated women. I believe in the woman who is able to stand up for herself. I believe in the woman who doesn’t need to hide behind her husband’s or boyfriend’s  back.

I believe that if you have problems, as a woman you deal with them, you don’t play a victim, you don’t make yourself look pitiful, you don’t point fingers. You stand and you deal. You face the world with a head held high and you carry the universe in your heart.”  

Educated women should be  independent and are thus happy on their own, and do not need a man to give them the stability and peace in life.  These women find dating not crucial in order to feel fulfilled, and the time not spent dating becomes more valuable and meaningful. 

Yet, but being a Educated woman is much more difficult than you think, as they are determined to cope with all the challenges in life alone, and depend on their own only.

Additionally,

“They don’t seek out a partner to get anything out of them; they seek someone in order to add value to their life. They only want someone who will lift them up, not drag them down. In the same way, they also wish to add meaning to someone else’s life and see the importance of both give and take in a relationship. A strong woman would never take more than she’s willing to give when it comes to love.

An educated woman is only attracted to a positive, uplifting person because she’s been through a lot in her own life and doesn’t want someone who will drag her back into the dirt.  She will always tackle problems with you, but won’t tolerate constant complaining and toxic behavior.”

Actually, being in a toxic relationship is something no one should tolerate. Unhealthy relationships only destroy the life of the couple, ruining their self-esteem, and causing only sadness and pain.

Therefore, leaving such a union is necessary, as the partners only delay their peacefulness and happiness they can get when they leave each other.

Everyone should devote their personal time and energy to someone who deserves it, and if you haven’t found your love yet, you will find greater happiness as an individual.  Being open to dating is absolutely great, but being completely happy single is acceptable and awesome as well.

Educated women often decide not to waste their energy on relationships that will only hurt them, as they are well aware of the fact that being alone is exponentially better than being part of an unhealthy relationship.

Being alone has nothing to do with feeling lonely, so feel free to be who you really want to be, and make sure you develop into the person of your dreams before you start working on a loving relationship with someone.

Final thoughts 

Women do not want to settle for, having to sift though  bargain basements to find the right kind of man, they are looking for someone who they can have stimulating conversations with, men who can enhance their lives in more ways than one. Men who have had enough  of those women that don’t meet their needs either, and are also looking for better connections. Just start adjusting to the new World order by thinking out side of the box, folks.