What is the trifecta of perfection woman in the 21st century?

Simple answer: The 3 B(s), Beauty, Brains, BadA$$ness. 

The term BadA$$ness is one that speaks volumes she is not to be messed with. 

Are you sure you want to mess with me?

I didn’t  always know  what I prefer in a woman in the past, the physical attributes she possessed would catch my eye and that was enough i.e. she had to be eye candy.  Well that has changed as I have finally matured a bit. The 3 B(s)  are now what will attracts me. I’m not saying she needs to have all 3, but at least 2 will do for starters, which will capture and probably hold my attention. So why these 3 B(s). Well men need to realize that women have changed and the more independent women become, the more they have and need these  B(s) to stand out. Beauty is in the eyes of behold, it’s always a matter of taste, she can be beautiful in so many different ways, the lady that stands tall, and is out standing is  

Barack Obama has the wife that has the  Beauty, Brains, BadA$$ness.

Michelle Obama, who has all 3 B(s) going for her. 

 This is why she is the most admired female currently. We have seen her for more or less a decade now as an outstanding first lady.  So President Obama has shown the rest of the male population what a woman with the trifecta of outstandingness in attribute has. His smart choice in convincing her to be his life partner has set the bar pretty high, and many  of us mortal men wish we could find an equivalent type of female. She can compete in every area. Put a microphone in her hand and she can deliver a speech so smooth, and write a book, that grabs and holds your attention. And without a doubt  her Brain speaks for itself. She can impress you with her articulation, her knowledge, her command of language with a very strong vocabulary, she can be a keynote speaker at any event or function. You know when she speaks people will listen. 

Men like me  know these qualities were rare years ago. But  younger men are living in a World where women are so much more educated, dynamic, and independent so  finding a worthwhile female partner is not too hard to find anymore, you just need to know what qualities to look for in a quality mate. Women are so much more accomplished than the women of let’s say  2 generations ago, and they can carry the torch, if the man in her life can’t, carry the torch, for a while then she can hand it back to him when he can carry it again in the relay, or she can just light his torch and continue to carry hers. 

Two torches will give twice the light.

 

A few years ago, the vocalist,  Riana sang a hit song “shine bright like diamond” many women thought they had to become diamonds  in order to sparkle and standout. We all know being a diamond requires years and even decades of pressure to become one and then they need to cut and polished to shine to their fullest karats and brilliance.  

The impatient man of today does not want to invest that much time. When a woman steps out and want to stand out, she needs to have the attributes, that men want.

Women who want to be treated as queens need to be  able to fit the part…. Not just claim they want to be a queen because it’s the title of day.

Becoming a queen required the 3 B(s).

Well Riana showed the World that she is a 21st century Trifecta perfection  woman who is lighting the path for many other women to follow. But she is not the first….. there are some outstanding 20th century women who were an example for others to follow, too. Oprah and  Beyonce are some of these women who continues to impress... they could team up and be a partner that will enhance their performances.. or go at it alone!  

This is what I believe….. Is where women becoming the three B (s). 

When they are totally unselfish, in my view that is perfection. 

Could you be loved, and be loved?