Are You an UN-matchable females? Why?

You sure haven’t got it easy,  ladies. 46 percent of African American and Caribbean American women will never be married according to statistics. OK. that applies in the Caribbean, where I live, also women of color are having it even tougher than most other cultures. Beautiful, successful, all that and a pair of golden Pumps yet still…Matchless in Michigan, Illinois, New York, Miami, San Francisco, L.A.. Lonely in New Orleans and Dateless in Denver. Looking at the Horizon in St. Maarten waiting for your ship to arrive. There seems to a  "Good Man shortage?" NOT hardly. There is actually no shortage of anything in the Universe. The Universe is abundant and overflowing with what you need, so what is the issue….; So you may have to travel out space to find your Perfect match maybe that is the problem yu are looking a Perfect match!

A lot of you haven’t met your match because you haven’t figured out what your MATCH is.... What does I mean by this; you have no idea who YOU are, or what you want. In relationships there are several areas of compatibility. Spiritual, Intellectual, Physical, Financial, Emotional areas where you can find harmony. If you were to be honest, you are confused on a few of these levels. You haven’t figured out what you believe spiritually..... OR you aren't LIVING IT. Your life is a mess financially and you certainly aren't looking to “match your mess”. Emotionally you are just, well “needy”…so you attempt to MATCH with anything that has a move in any positive direction, because if it FEELS like love, lust or you are just flat-out  horny and need servicing. Physically, you want a man that looks good, but you don’t take care of YOURSELF adequately , don’t work out…don’t eat right….and NO, you’re not trying to MATCH that lax attitude either. So every guy that you date is a MISMATCH because you are looking for the missing pieces of yourself in an undefined FRAME. Imagine a puzzle with no structure trying to cram pieces into random holes with no shape. That’s you.  no definition to the THINGS that matter most when MATCHING. Purpose, shared purpose, Yolked, equally…..your YOLK changes based on the car he drives, you will chain yourself to anything no matter what DIRECTION it is headed. 

Your life has no direction and your steps have no order. How can two walk together unless they agree ? How can you even walk with no direction ? SMH. 

Random dating with no purpose and no plans. Have you met your MATCH ? NO and you WONT until the puzzle that you call your life has an outline. Let the   MASTERS of the Universe  MATCH MAKER fill your empty SPACES with  love FIRST and then let  THE one who  DESIGNED the world  create a  perfect match  for you, what the heck, you might as l well believe he  will magically show up!  Nothing else is working.... RIGHT?
The manufacturer of these wrap around you pillow would make a killing if it would come with a sound system build into it.... that would sing  to you and say to  you in a smooth voice: sleep tight my Love, Pleasant dreams. I will here tomorrow when you wake!.