So you think She is "the one," but you are still wondering.. does she have any secrets??

She’ll give you her heart and give you her body, but chances are she’s still keeping some secrets close to her breast. Want her to ’fess up? Before you start digging, learn what her secrets really say about your relationship—and whether or not honesty is always the best policy. before I go into my some what lengthy list. fellahs ask yourself this small question: "Can my ego handle the truth?" If 'yes' proceed 

1. Her Sexual Past Is a Mystery

Her number of past partners might be higher or lower than she originally let on. How come? She’s afraid you will judge her—and you probably will. Having too few sexual partners makes her seem inexperienced and a prude, but too may  brand her a slut if she told the truth. There is no right number(period). so letting this stay a secret is in both of your interests, so let it go. And if you're both happy with your relationship, it shouldn't matter what her tally, or yours  is. One more question in this area that is worth knowing. Has she had an abortion and why? Or an one night stand with your best friend?

2. She's Drowning in Debt

These days, who doesn't have debt? But if she hides her bottom line, she probably feels embarrassed or even guilty about hers. money issues is  the leading causes of divorce, so full financial disclosure is vital—especially if you're together for the long haul. Lay the “you can open up to me” groundwork by assessing how you react when she goes on a shopping sprees, or lets it slip that she paid her bills late last month. Don't say anything she could perceive as judgmental, and instead ask her if she would be open to talking about where each of you stand financially. Establish that you want to work together toward the healthiest financial future possible. 

3. She Stalks Her Ex on Facebook

Being overly interested in an ex’s life can be a death sentence for a relationship if the underlying causes aren't addressed. She's either not over her ex, or she isn't getting what she needs in your relationship to be satisfied with. But your wrong move would be to mention the word "stalking." Instead, ask her about what makes her scared in your relationship, and how her past relationships have influenced that. 

4. She Uses a Vibrator . . . a whole  Lot!

Just because you’re monogamous, it doesn't mean she’s not getting it on, solo-style. Why does she stay quiet? She worries it will hurt your feelings and make you feel like you don’t satisfy her in bed. But in reality, she just might like the variety—or the pure pleasure of focusing only on her Oooohs and Aaaahs, and not yours. You don’t need to know everything that happens between her and her vibrator, but asking her to masturbate in front of you can provide some key insight into what really curls her toes. <smirking>

5. She Doesn't Always Look Perfect

Whether she had a deviated septum fixed or some work done on her chin, she prefers to be seen—especially by you—as the best, prettiest version of herself. She cares about pleasing you and being desired. I suggest letting her keep her secret and acting grateful when she gets gussied up for you. If you want her to feel comfortable "au natural," make a point of telling her she’s beautiful the next time she crawls into bed without makeup. But don’t, under any circumstance, tell her that she's prettier without it. That sounds like a compliment, but it just makes women feel like they can’t win.

6. She's Had Better Sex

But in a purely physical way, of course. While you probably don’t need to know where your between-the-sheets skills stack up against all of her past lovers, you do need to know if there's a problem in the sack. If she keeps it to herself, it's most likely that the frequency of your sexual encounters will decrease and the intimacy between the two of you will decrease. In fact, couples who satisfy each other’s sexual needs are 65 percent more likely to be happy together than those who don’t, according to a 2011 study in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy. But instead of asking if she’s satisfied sexually—be careful she might  say “no”?—ask her what you can do to make things even better.   

OK I hope after reading this no guy  walks into the room and says: "please  answer these 6 questions by placing your right  hand on the bible and repeat after me.... I will answer these 6 question with the truth and nothing but the truth so help me God"   good luck with that one.