Become a Beloved Mistress Or a Perfect Prey?

Many women today are so desperate for a man that they will accept that he’s married, has children and never plans to leave his wife.
The attitude of many women is, “Men will lie down with anything with a heartbeat.” That indictment may well be valid if the cheating man is only interested in a one-night stand. However, if he intends on maintaining an ongoing affair, specific requirements must be met, one of which is empathy.
The other woman must be willing to accept his current relationship without “rocking the boat.” Most cheating men, especially the married ones, will come right out and tell her the details of his situation. With such a large number of women to choose from, the odds are in his favor. Many women today are so desperate for a man that they will accept that he’s married, living with another woman, or has several other women. As one woman told me, “A piece of man is better than no man!”
Sexual inhibition is another requirement. John from Chicago stated, “If the other woman won’t allow me to be sexually adventurous then what the hell do I need her for? I can be bored at home.” His comment is typical of most married men who cheat.
By Michael Baisden

My perspective: If a woman wants to invite the positive energy of the  right man in her life, she needs not  settle for less that what she is worth. There are many semi-safe ways to do it these days. Social groups and even groups like  Match.com. or others like PeopleMeet.com seem to be matching folks up. With a lot less drama, men who are married seldom put themselves on these site for match-ups. Single men are also looking for the right mate . Now ladies if a guy is paying you special attention, doing things periodically telling you what he admires most about you , he like you more than just a passing fantasy.    Even though  there isn't much you can learn about someone using  social-media. But you can view partnership potential. Maybe while  checking these patterns of  this guy  can gather enough info to give you a   comfort  that  zodiac-signs match-ups might be good enough.

wondering it he will get up and go home  while you are asleep!

The objective of  any good relationship should be   balanced. How can you be balanced when you are in an out-of -balance relationship. He is your Part-time, sometimes, Never on Holidays. Unequal time lover.  Too much alone time cause you to think about what is happening somewhere else when you are not with him. 
Note: Men who play around after making a full commitment of marriage are not really committed to you either. These guys  Never really made a full  commitment. Let's view it from the perspective of  contractual employment. You sign a contract but you take major  time off.... to work on other projects while neglecting your duties on the signed contract. Now that can't work forever.  The simple fact is, as a man, we  would loose our mind if it's being done to us.  I keep referring to this being the 21st century. 

Alone again tonight  but I  can still smell his cologne

A woman  need not settle for less than what she deserves. Try thinking about that  when you are creeping that she might be creeping also.  Ohh now the picture just got ugly...... in your minds eye.  Men can't handle the fact that another man had  his woman,  moaning..... oohing and aahing( maybe even louder than with him.)  Wow, shivers just did it's  thing up and down your  spine... ouch.   As a man it is  not pleasing at all...  Right? Men  Can't handle  it! It's just that simple. Discuss it together if you have to, but keep it hypothetical....  because he will listen while thinking this better be your BFF you are talking about.   It better not be YOU, in that illicit  affair, you are describing....   Case closed! Now let's drop the subject! 
The worst part is when                       "Everybody Knows"