Chivalrous habits of a true Gentleman for New years EVE , but do these gestures still make women swoon?

My thoughts for those moments when  you are Standing under the

 Mistletoe with purpose!

He could at least wait for me to  fall asleep
 before turning his back and falling asleep

As many  women brace themselves for the worst,   proceedings with extreme caution the first few months of a relationship, for fear of falling victim to the debauchery in which so many men partake, these days. It  might be a welcome relief, when they stumble upon those few true gentlemen left out there.  We exude chivalry with even the smallest actions, and remind women that there are still good mannered men out there. Despite popular opinions, chivalry is not dead-- here are a few everyday gestures  where men can prove it:

Women want men to be considerate. To best demonstrate that you are considerate, make sure she is comfortable and secure before you relax and fall off into slumber, especially if she is over at your crib and spending the night for the first time.

Thanks for holding the door open!

Opening doors (old school)   A guy who takes the time to come around and open the car door for a woman is a potential keeper, not to mention a commodity when your dress it very tight.  You don't   want to be left standing outside while your date gets nice and comfortable in the drivers seat while you struggle with the door and have to  climbing in a car  that is too low, or an SUV that is too high.  Recognize and appreciate a guy who puts your comfort and well-being first, even if it's just for a few extra seconds.

this is our last bite let's share it!

Saving the last bit of food. They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. so when he saves the last bite for you, it's basically him saying he likes you more than whatever meal is in front of him . which, for the record, is a great sacrifice. So share the bite of the last piece of food. It will connect you greater than one giving and the other receiving.

That was the best meal ever!

Spending time with her family. It's the holidays  and a guy shows an interest in your baby photos coaches your little brother's on how to throw a football and compliments your mother's cooking is a guy who's in it for a good meal for the long haul.... and takes the pictures at the holiday dinner.  these are small gestures, but they speak volumes about intentions.

don't drink and drive, or loose your mind.

The following are the   Don't  repeats for the New Year.
Do NOT have a physical relation until you consider these 3 very important things. Now  I may be  sounding like a dad, however this might save you from regrets for 365 days.  The hookup culture in modern society make it look like sex is the best way to finding " the right One" on New Years EVE and into the new year. This has totally damaged the dating culture in our society because relationships are now more focused on sexual intimacy instead of emotional intimacy.

Women tend to disregard emotional intimacy which includes sharing each other's experiences, opinions and feelings and would feel guilty about not jumping into bed too soon with a  new guy they like....
As much as physical intimacy is important, there's always a reward for waiting. Here are three things to consider before having sexual relations with someone you "think" you want to become your partner.

Wait are we really ready for this?

1. Are you both interested in straying together in a long-term commitment: Sex is a way to express love not just attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.

2. Are you  satisfied with where you both stand:  Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can't honestly give a ' yes ' to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.

3. Do you both share the same ideas and values: It's not  how he feels about you. it's how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion , lifestyle, parenting style, money management.


Mistletoe can serve as a good intro with  purpose!