Tips on How To Impress a Woman who likes you!

You are so sweet!

Many men have a difficult time understanding women. If you feel like you are having trouble understanding a new woman, or are feeling like you are drifting apart, you may want to put extra effort into impressing her. While there are sweet things you can do for her, like buying her a present or taking her on a date, most women are looking for much more than something that involves money. They want what money can’t buy them. Here are five ways you can impress your woman and help reconnect with her.

Pay Attention to What She Says and Remember It
Women want to know that when they talk, you listen. So when your woman is talking to you, listen to what she is telling you and remember it. Nothing is going to turn her off more than her having to repeat the same things or you asking questions about things she has already told you.
My perspective: Men will always be tested, when you think you have it figured out..... the game rules changes. To best understand her you need to first know what to remember, with out a doubt she knows what is important to her  your job is to figure out what those things are. If you miss it you will have a hard time  catching up as time goes by. because she will always be moving forward, she will not slowdown and allow you to catch up. so be smart and ask Questions: My motto is "the Man who ask questions controls the direction of the conversation" so don't ask question to reply to her responses but ask to understand what is important to her.

Socialize With Her Friends and Family
It is very important to women that you like her family and friends, and that you all get along. Taking the time to socialize with a woman’s friends and family shows that you care for her and that you intend on becoming a part of her life.

OK... I'll just drink myself into a coma!

My perspective: OK this can be tricky... her center of being is her community, you have to be able to fit in.. Your community, of your boyz and even family, is not important to her, unless she feel they should become important over time. So fellahs,  forget trying to get her to fit into your community. First things first.... you need to fit into her World, and then she will tolerate your community or/and World. Maybe!  

Ask for Her Opinion on Important Matters
Communication is always crucial with women. Allowing them to have an input in important matters in your life will show them that you care about them on more than just an attraction level, but emotionally and mentally as well.
My perspective: first you need to determine what are  Important matters, the question should always be "to who?" We men get confused, we think buying a car is important... but she is thinking way past the two seat-er convertible.  You might impress her with your choice of transportation initially but that color you picked better be her color. Because when she ask you for the keys, she want to able to do the things she wants to do in it, and the color better not clash with her outfit..   

Be Emotionally Available
It can be hard for some men to be emotionally available, sensitive and vulnerable. However, most women want to know that their man can do so at times. If you are having a rough day, let your woman in. Shutting her out will make her feel unwanted, whereas letting her in lets her know you care.

I wonder what the score is in the game I'm missing  right now?

My perspective: Be careful this is a two edge sword. she may want you to be emotionally available  but she may not want you to be too emotional.  When she thinks about the first man in her live (her daddy) she might have a perspective as to how she expects you to act and how she would prefer you to act. Her Daddy's  behaviors might be a dark shadow that you might have a problem shaking.   flash backs can become issues, detached  behaviors  might become greater problems than you can't handle without professional counseling.   

Let Her Know Her Importance to You
Show your woman you care for her. Chivalry is an art form that is almost extinct. Many people do not practice it or know what it is. If you are reading this and wondering what it is then you need to pay attention. Opening the car door, pulling out her chair or even giving her your jacket to wear are all signs of chivalry. This will show her that she means a lot to you and she will feel important.

My perspective: As I think about being in lockstep on the things that she will see as sacrifices made easily, effortlessly, done without a second thought are all the things that women see as Chivalry. Men who can sweep her off her feet , and leap tall building in a single bound. These TV and movie character come to life in you as she looks at you, and then you miss a step, and you are off beat in the moves you are no long fluent. If it was meant to be  perfect then men would all get it right from the script so carefully write for us. SMH we wouldn't get it that right.....Ladies because we are human.   
 Women are looking for a man who understands them, loves them unconditionally, and want a man who can open up to them. Paying attention to what a woman has to say, becoming friends with her friends and family, asking her opinions, being emotionally available and reassuring her of her significance to you will help you to impress her and have a loving, trusting and long-lasting relationship. Adam set this bar and we all know the story about the forbidden fruit and  how well that worked out for him.   
 Keep hope alive that things like this are still possible : 

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