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These  Are Some Signs You’re With A Good Man.

RELATIONSHIPS would  be simpler if we concentrate on the good and less on the BAD.

"Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one." – Marcus Aurelius

As men, one of our duties is to be gentlemanly to all those that we encounter. There is perhaps no person that this pertains to more – and to a higher degree – than your committed Life-partner. Women expect to be courted by, and potentially married to, a man of the highest character.

Most people would agree that good men encompass certain behavioral traits throughout the duration of a relationship.  This leads to the next question: what character traits make up a “good man”? Well, there are indeed many of them. I’ve managed to narrow the “signs” of a good man down to about 11.. I like what 11 because it implies 1 on 1, in my view.

YOU ARE WITH A GOOD MAN IF:

With you I feel born again!

HE MAKES YOU FEEL BEAUTIFUL ( INSIDE AND OUT).

As his lifepartner, a good man won’t forget about making your feel beautiful. A good man is not content with just saying the words, but is successful in manifesting feelings of beauty within your heart. This includes in the way he interacts with you physically and mentally.

 HE EVOKES A SENSE OF INSPIRATION.

A good man will always possess a strong and unshakable character. As such, by default, the man is inspirational in his words and deeds. He never ceases to evoke feelings of inspiration. A good man will inspire a woman to be the best version of herself.

 HE IS SUPPORTIVE MORE OFTEN THAN NOT.

A good man understands the importance of remaining supportive and accommodating to a woman’s needs. This doesn’t entail being a “Yes Man,” but being a man that can offer support and accommodation when the situation calls for such.

You know you have my total support on whatever you choose to do!

 HE ALWAYS SEEKS SELF-IMPROVEMENT.

A good man never really gives himself too much credit. Though he may be intelligent, a good man seeks to always self-improvement; whether this is through learning something new, taking on added responsibilities, or getting into better shape, a good man prides himself on becoming better. Having said all that. Here is what this means for you lady, because how he takes care himself, he will encourage you to do the same sharing knowledge with you by informing you that there are good things you both can be share.

HE MAKES YOU FEEL SAFE AND SECURE.


Feeling safe and secure is a vital component for any woman in her relationship. It is the man’s duty to ensure that such feelings are present. In the event of something unfortunate, a good man will always stand up for and defend his woman.
The most compelling part about security is that's the comforting feeling a person can have, grant your ladies peace of mind is the ultimate peace two people can have as a couple.

I have your back, baby... you never have to worry about that.

HE ALWAYS SEEMS TO DO THE “LITTLE THINGS” WELL.

Holding the door open, pulling out the chair, feeding the kids, etc. are all trademark actions of a good man doing the little things. He is never too busy to stop what he’s doing and offer a small gesture of assistance. Go figure women want a manly man but often misunderstand the softer side of that same man.  If he does all of those things then he might be too soft... this why thugs reign supreme  in rap videos.

HE IS HONEST AND FORTHCOMING.

A good man will not lie, cheat, or steal, especially to the person he loves the most in the world. A good man should not feel any hesitation in telling it like it is, whether what he has to say be good or bad.


HE IS NEVER ABUSIVE TOWARDS YOU OR ANYONE ELSE.

A good man will never be physically, mentally, or emotionally abusive to his partner. Ever. Also, a good man will not instigate an abusive episode with anyone else under any circumstance. Instead, a good man will use the strength of his character and intellect to resolve conflicts.

HE STANDS BY YOU WHOLEHEARTEDLY.

I have always stood with you wholeheartedly, and I always will.

When a good man expresses his love, this love remains through thick and thin. Under no circumstance will a good man neglect you, even in the more challenging situations. A good man will not abandon his duty to stand by you.

HE WORKS TO EARN, AND KEEP, YOUR TRUST.

A good man understands that trust, like love, cannot be forced; it must be earned. After earning the woman’s sacred trust, a good man will not take such a blessing for granted. Furthermore, a good man never leaves his trust in-doubt.

HE PUTS YOU FIRST IN MOST CIRCUMSTANCE.

This doesn’t mean that he keels over and appeases to a woman’s every whim. It does mean, in most cases, that a good man will be selfless in his words and deeds. It is a man’s responsibility to put his woman first – a good man does this much more often!