6/21/2018

So what titles are you comfortable with?

"Baron will do!" That is my name.

I believe the term "treat him like a King" is a statement that gives most modern-day women a momentary "Pause!" Most will think that they are making the man superior in the union,  by declaiming him "a King," it's as if  he is being put in that position of being her "King" To reign over her.
Where as men do not hesitate much, since calling a woman a "Queen" still allows him to maintain the dominant position, if he choses... it's always his choice, at least in his mind, thinking it''s still his Kingdom to reign over.
As a titled "Queen" a woman feels strong so much so, if something’s going on between the two sexes, she won’t hesitate to have a conversation about it so the problem can be resolved quickly, if she is confirmed as an equal.


KINGS AND QUEENS THEY LOOK AT A RELATIONSHIP AS A TEAM.

They can’t have anyone slowing them down in life, so they only choose someone who they can see building a stable life with in the future. A Queen doesn’t want anyone to control or anyone to control her; she wants someone who will grow with her and whose future can be intertwined with hers. She wants someone who has her back and who she can protect as well. A self appointed  Queen doesn’t need someone in order to feel better about herself; she just wants someone to celebrate all the wins in life with, and someone to support and encourage her through the losses.

That right "self appointed Queen!"


QUEENS  DON’T GET JEALOUS EASILY

Trust is a big deal for a strong woman, because she doesn’t just hand trust out. It has to be earned over a period of time, and even then, she might still need some more time. So, if you have "her trust," don’t do anything to lose it, because you most likely won’t be getting that privilege back. If she trusts you, then she doesn’t worry about the friends you hang out with or where you go after work. She doesn’t get seriously jealous of the other people you spend time with, because she gave you her heart and knows you will protect  the Relationships



“I believe in strong women. I believe in the woman who is able to stand up for herself. I believe in the woman who doesn’t need to hide behind her husband’s back. I believe that if you have problems, as a woman you deal with them, you don’t play victim, you don’t make yourself look pitiful, you don’t point fingers. You stand and you deal. You face the world with a head held high and you carry the universe in your heart.”  – C. JoyBell C.

Strong women know more than anything else that taking care of themselves is a must, and to not look upon anyone else to swoop in and save the day for them. They have been battle tested, and learned what independence truly means. Strong women have never known what’s it like to need anyone, because they had to fend for themselves at a young age. Any strong woman you meet has had a few crappy hands dealt to her in life, but she’s risen above like the champion she is at heart, not allowing one misstep or misfortune to hold her down.

Strong women are fierce, courageous, resilient, and beautiful. If you’re the lucky guy or gal that gets to call her yours, you’d do well to keep the following points in mind so you know what to expect in your relationship with your strong

 QUEENS AREN’T LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO SAVE THEM

No, they learned as a child that no one would come to save them – they had to save themselves. They never had the pleasure of relying on anyone for anything, so why start now? The person there for them at the end of the day was always staring back at them in the mirror before they laid their head down at night, so they see no reason to give that duty to someone else.

In relationships, strong women do not view you as a means to an end – a way to become more financially or emotionally stable, or to cure themselves of loneliness, etc. They don’t have any ulterior motive to being with you, so you don’t have to worry. There’s a lot more security in a relationship with a strong woman, because you don’t have to walk on eggshells around her in order to keep her happy. You don’t have to bring home a six figure income to keep her satisfied, and you don’t have to babysit her emotions. There is both security and freedom in being in a relationship with a woman who needs no hero to save her.

 QUEENS KNOW WHAT THEY WANT

Because of this, they don’t approach relationships the same way those who are just wading in the dating pool might. They dive right in and know their target long before they’ve even hit the water. In other words, these women have been  ready mentally for years.

In the final analysis "Know what you want" ladies!


Geen opmerkingen:

Een reactie posten