There Are Reasons Strong Women Handle Relationships Differently....
“I believe in strong women. I believe in the woman who is able to stand up for herself. I believe in the woman who doesn’t need to hide behind her husband’s back. I believe that if you have problems, as a woman you deal with them, you don’t play victim, you don’t make yourself look pitiful, you don’t point fingers. You stand and you deal. You face the world with a head held high and you carry the universe in your heart.” – C. JoyBell C.
Strong women know more than anything else that taking care of themselves is a must, and to not look upon anyone else to swoop in and save the day for them. They have been battle tested, and learned what independence truly means. Strong women have never known what’s it like to need anyone, because they had to fend for themselves at a young age. Any strong woman you meet has had a few crappy hands dealt to her in life, but she’s risen above like the champion she is at heart, not allowing one misstep or misfortune to hold her down.
Strong women are fierce, courageous, resilient, and beautiful. If you’re the lucky guy or gal that gets to call her yours, you’d do well to keep the following points in mind so you know what to expect in your relationship with your strong sweetheart.
1. THEY AREN’T LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO SAVE THEM
No, they learned as a child that no one would come to save them – they had to save themselves. They never had the pleasure of relying on anyone for anything, so why start now? The person there for them at the end of the day was always staring back at them in the mirror before they laid their head down at night, so they see no reason to give that duty to someone else.
In relationships, strong women do not view you as a means to an end – a way to become more financially or emotionally stable, or to cure themselves of loneliness, etc. They don’t have any ulterior motive to being with you, so you don’t have to worry. There’s a lot more security in a relationship with a strong woman, because you don’t have to walk on eggshells around her in order to keep her happy. You don’t have to bring home a six figure income to keep her satisfied, and you don’t have to babysit her emotions. There is both security and freedom in being in a relationship with a woman who needs no hero to save her.
2. STRONG WOMEN KNOW WHAT THEY WANT
Because of this, they don’t approach relationships the same way those who are just wading in the dating pool might. They dive right in and know their target long before they’ve even hit the water. In other words, these women have been hurt before and know what to look for in a mate. They’ve had experience with the types of people they DON’T want, so they know exactly what they do want. They don’t waste their life in dead-end relationships; if they feel the vibe with you, you’ll know. If not, she’ll let you know early on so you both don’t waste your time.
3. THEY VIEW RELATIONSHIPS AS AN EQUAL PARTNERSHIP
They don’t seek out a partner to get anything out of them; they seek someone in order to add value to their life. They only want someone who will lift them up, not drag them down. In the same way, they also wish to add meaning to someone else’s life, and see the importance of both give and take in a relationship. A strong woman would never take more than she’s willing to give when it comes to love.
4. THEY KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THEIR EMOTIONS
For you The sky is the limit So look at the stars when we are in bed together. |
Strong women don’t need anyone to coddle them in life; they are perfectly capable of sorting through their own feelings. Because of their emotional maturity, it’s a lot easier to talk to them should a disagreement occur. In a relationship with a strong woman, things are dealt with in an adult manner, with respect and grace. These type of women don’t let their emotions get the best of them, and always listen to their partner’s point of view without interrupting.
She always have it together.
So meet her at her exclusive spot!
" on the moon"
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