Dealing with outrageous Jealousy !

Some women you date can be very jealous. They want to know your every move. They text and call you 24/7. this can lead to you becoming   very annoyed due to  this unpleasant  experience. It can lead to a break up called by you. She might as well breakup with you by her obsessive thought of you having another girl each time she sees you talking to a friend, your co-worker or class mate.

In cases like these you might be forced to take action. It might be a mixture of jealousy and obsession which is a very bad recipe for any relationship. If you really love her or want to have a future with her you might consider counselling but if not its best not to tarry to long with a obsessive and very jealous woman. Jealousy however  is not a BAD thing,  it can be a good thing. A relationship without jealousy can be a  telling story.

It shows how much the relationship is worth, for instance if your lady don’t become jealous when she sees you with another girl that appears to be a potential treat to your relationship then chances are your lady is not in love with you and she might be dating you for other reasons apart from love, like money, and your status in the community, I. think it would be ideal to say you should not feel too comfortable around overly jealous women, but a little green eyed look can be sexy.

Jealousy can be good and bad. Let us start with the negative effect. Your girl could be so insecure and jealous that she will go to the point of dating another guy( getting the advantageous  edge before it happens to her). That would definitely have a negative impact on your relationship. The relationship may become abusive especially if you are also very jealous.  In this situation you have to be extremely careful and be conscious. Don’t let your emotions get the best of you. The last thing you want is a physical dispute between both of you. Both of you should work out your differences and understand each other. It’s better to be verbal with jealousy than to be at risk of trauma caused by physical disputes.

The positive side of your lady being jealous is one of which you know factual that you are not being played. She is jealous because obviously she really checks for you and she has good reasons for dating you. She’s not dating you just for money or what you can give her but rather for what you mean to her. If you know she’s is a lady that gets jealous easily you should try not to steer her in that direction. You can do it just to test her feelings for you.

If in the case you are the one that is insecure and becomes jealous of your lady easily you should address the issue. Do not bottle it up inside you as in don’t pretend you are not that jealous type. Let her know that you are easily affected by who she talks to and text. She will then become more comfortable around you and without you asking give you all details on her going in and going out.