He/she might not be the right One for you!

Pretty much everyone wants to be in-love and have that special someone for companionship, friendship and support, and to build a life with. But in today’s fast-paced world and despite amazing advancement in technology, we still seem to have trouble finding the right one. Simply because we are starting from the premise that " the Mountain needs to come to Mohammed"
Here’s the thing: if you are making excuses in your own head and to family and friends as to why you are staying with him, he is not the right one for you.
In fact, sometimes we get frustrated and settle for the wrong one. Here are some signals that the one you are with right now is not Mr. Right.

• Mr/Ms. Unavailable most of the time.
He’s/ she's difficult to get in touch with. That’s usually a sign that they are involved with someone else or they actually are   work-a-holics, or simply not very interested. Either way, you are left in the cold.

• Mr. Mean/Ms. Impossible.

They doesn't compliment you. They haven't said anything nice since you first went out. That’s a sign that they doesn't value you. They should be proud to have a lady or a Gentleman on their arm, and while they doesn't have to shower you with compliments, there’s gotta be something they see in you and they needs to say it, now and then. Now and then is better than over kill, all the time.... this might also mean they are faking it.

• Dr. Good Time Now and Then.
Whenever you are together, you may have a great time. The problem is it only happens once in a while. When they makes time for you, it’s all cool and wonderful. But they are  not taking you serious if it’s only occasionally. You know how it is… when a man really wants a woman, he does what it takes to be with her, and show her a good time.
Actually here is where men are  from Mars and women are from Venus..  when a woman really wants a man, she does some of the things necessary to be with him, and makes  herself available  for a good time!

• Mr. I need a Maid. or Ms. I need a butler/ handyman/everything man/ a new Daddy.
Oh no. This is the one who wants you to do his laundry, cook for him rather than go out and can’t seem to keep a clean place. He is looking for a maid. After all this is the 21st century... Guys who need a maid  should pay a maid to do his cleaning up for him. Find a man who can take care of himself, not  play waitress to his needs. OK.. Ms. I need a Butler/ handyman/ everything man. a new Daddy. You might be looking  for a long while. those guys are very  rare! Maybe your daddy was a man like that.. He is one in a million and your mother was very lucky, so luck like that like lighting may only strike your family once....

• Mr. Stubborn/ Ms. hard head.
They are  not flexible. They makes the rules and they makes most of the decisions as to where you will go, what you will see and maybe even what you will wear. Successful relationships involve compromise, so for the long term, this would mean trouble, unless you think you can be happy being someone's  doormat.

• Mr. Nonchalant Ms. Whatever.
They don't seem to care one way or other whether or not you are in their life. In fact, if you walk away, they won’t try to get you back. You are just a convenience to them. A guy who is  so nonchalant about you is not very caring.  He’s basically a quitter that doesn't fight for anything, and that means you, too. and a woman who is so into her needs only, is someone who will, have other guys on speed-dial, or sending group text on whatsApp to others, stateting "I'm available! hit me up"