Reasons Why Highly Intelligent Woman Can’t Find Happiness

Am I supposed to  be impressed by what you just said?

Highly intelligent women have a very unique view on life and they very often

feel dissatisfied and unhappy with their lives, even if they have successful

career and a harmonious personal life. If you feel this way and you would

like to know more about it, these are the 6 reasons why you might feel

how you feel.

1. They (women in general) can’t help over-analyzing things

Since highly intelligent women often overthink and over-analyze

even the smallest details, they often feel exhausted because of it.

They might see problems where they don’t exist. This may make

some of these women  feel depressed and no matter how hard

they try there is nothing they can do to change it.

The skill of analyzing things can be useful but not

always, in every situation.... especially in relationships.
Sometimes, just accepting the situation, for how it is,
may help you get a relief and feel more relaxed.

2. They hold everything to their high standards

Highly intelligent women know what they want and what

they expect from anyone including themselves. If those

expectations are not met, they might feel unhappy as a result.

This can apply to any aspect of their life whether it is their

social life, personal life or career.

It is important to understand that in life we don’t always get

what we want and we should settle for less sometimes.

Never feel like it is the end of the world because it is not.

Once you realize that reality is different from your expectations,

you will start to feel much happier!

3. These women are too hard on themselves

Judging yourself too much might also be another reason

for your unhappiness. Because of your tendency to over-analyze

everything, you might also do this with yourself and your behavior.

You might often set too high standards even when it is about you,

and you will feel disappointed if you fail to meet them.

Try not to feel disappointed by thinking of a mistake you

made 10 years ago. You can’t do anything to change the past and

try to accept it as a way of learning. 

Highly intelligent people have a very unique view on life and

they very often feel dissatisfied and unhappy with their lives

even if they have successful career and a harmonious personal life.

If you feel this way and you would like to know more about it,

these are the 6 reasons why you might feel how you feel.

Hmmm is this a problem that you are facing?

4. You Women are setting the bar too high

Highly intelligent women usually dream big and they want to

pursue greatness and to have a big purpose in life. This tendency

to achieve more all the time can drain them from their energy

and make them fail to see the beauty of life if they think it

should be perfect. They should learn how to accept their

life just the way it is and they will feel a lot happier.

5. They find it hard to have a meaningful conversation

with their peers, or men.

Having someone to talk to is very important to us, since

we are social beings. This can help us feel appreciated,

especially when that person understands how we feel.

However, highly intelligent women think others may not

understand them which is why they avoid sharing their

thoughts and feelings with their friends and family. However,

according to scientists, highly intelligent women don’t need

that much socialization compared to others, but it is still

important for them to socialize at least a little.

I'll just do my own thing, no need to be a social butterfly!

6. They often experience psychological problems

Numerous studies have proven the link between high

intelligence and mental disorders such as bipolar disorders

and social anxiety. Some scientists even claim these

disorders come as a side-effect of being a genius.

However, there is still not enough evidence to support

these claims.

This doesn’t mean that all intelligent women have

mental problems, but they are more likely to suffer

from issues such as existential depression probably

because of their habit to over-analyze things.

Final thoughts

Maybe an "old Friend" can make a difference in making you happier.....

if you welcome them into your life.