It’s coming from a deep place, when she calls you “a Male-whore!

Fellahs, she is not calling you a Malewhore for no reason.

There is some deep hurt in that place where she is coming from. We men have no understanding what women go through when after she dropped the panties, and gave you something that she thinks should have been preserved for that special someone…. For a second or maybe a minute, worsed yet a few hours, she felt vulnerable and let you into her world. It was good to her and she knew that the two of you struck a cord of harmony. But, you fellah took her for granted!

And if you just got up, pulled up your pants, like it was any other morning, and walked out of the room. You left her thinking. “He just walked out and took my heart and piece of my pride with him!”

Women often spend years telling themselves “it’s what adults do. It’s how life works.” As they watch a man, they felt something for, work his way through town and every available female within a radius. This vision plays over and over in their heads, leaving her pride broken in little pieces more and more each time she sees you. They tell themselves “ I will lock that night up, using a combination lock,  and throw away the numbers to that combination lock, while simultaneously building a wall around my heart, I refuse to ever allow myself to feel that way again!”

But here is the problem, every time she sees you with another woman, the combination lock numbers she used, magically reappears in her mind and she goes there. Now we men don’t know how this happens. Unless we have felt betrayed by a woman in a similar fashion.

Let’s just get real here men feel it too, ladies, maybe in a different way, if he is a male-whore then betrayal may have happened to him at some point in time that he too got his heart smashed. That is the turning point where sleeping around maybe his therapy. Needless to say, men live in a Man’s World, and he can be a Male-whore and it’s accepted by every dude in his circle of friends maybe even female friends. Player, player, the player plays on. Is the  Badge of a stud.

Let us take a deeper look at what was in the eras of old which is no longer playing it tunes in this society. Men have seeds to sow, Millions of them and the only way we will get relief is to sow them. The population growth is depending on the sowing of these seeds. Biologically men feel the need to have multiple “mini-me(s)” running around male and/or female. Tell a man his kids look like him and his chest rises. His should and his posture straightens. So it’s what he is most proud of. Society has changed the results of when two people get together. We use condoms and spermicidal jells, birth control pills, and whatever other birth-control methods are available on the pharmacy shelf these days. So having sex does not produce anything of the results a man can see, so he feels it was a missed opportunity to produce. Maybe “orgasms” is all that women want these days ... the want to have them more and more… this is the result they want. Men who help them have them, in multiples is “a stud,” men who are selfish and want to see her pregnant after they had sex… usually, don’t care if she had an orgasm or not. The results of his contribution is a 9 month of incubation of growth and a baby is the end result, who has his genes.

Men and women wear different badges these days.

Examples:

• Gay men are not interested in having babies with their partners… because they can’t do it without a woman.
• Gay women who are in relationships with their partners don’t have to worry about getting pregnant unless they chose to have a man donate his sperm. And they don’t have to compete with other women who may also have had sex with that same man at some point.
• Straight men and women are the only ones who are still willing to go the full journey and have a longterm relationship with a  person, of the opposite sex, of their choice.

It’s a complicated World we are creating for ourselves.